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My girlfriend is pregnant, how is this possible?
First of all, my girlfriend and I are both 16. My girlfriend had a misscarriage on 4/16/08. After this we vowed we would not have intercourse again. During the month of July we fooled around a little bit. I fingered her and she gave me a HJ here and there but I was extremely cautious. I know that I did not touch my penis and get pre *** or anything on my hands and then finger her and I know that she did not get anything on her fingers and touch herself. So here we are now, she missd her July period (she is really petite and misses periods here and there though). She has taken two preg. tests and both are positive. She is 100% fathful so I know that is out of the question. She is having backaches and her stomach is messed up.
We are going to go to the doctor. My 100% intention is to be here and to be here for the baby. It's just all really confusing as to how this happened. What could've possibly happened? please help me, could this have anything to do with the miscarriage and her HCg levels still there or coming back? Please help me get things straighened out a little bit.
If you play wih fire you get burned. Too little too late though I have every intention of redeeming myself and her god name and making this situatin a positive although I know the reversal of something like this will take a long long time. I want to be a firefighter and my girlfriend wants to be a doctor, this is really a set back but I will not abort, and I have to own up to my mistakes. The hardest part about all this is disappointing my family and friends. I know deep down nside of me I can handle this. My brother went through the same thing actually and he is very successful. I didn't want the same thing to happen to me but I made a mistake and hopefully in thefuture this mistake will turn into a blessing.
We are going to go to the doctor. My 100% intention is to be here and to be here for the baby. It's just all really confusing as to how this happened. What could've possibly happened? please help me, could this have anything to do with the miscarriage and her HCg levels still there or coming back? Please help me get things straighened out a little bit.
If you play wih fire you get burned. Too little too late though I have every intention of redeeming myself and her god name and making this situatin a positive although I know the reversal of something like this will take a long long time. I want to be a firefighter and my girlfriend wants to be a doctor, this is really a set back but I will not abort, and I have to own up to my mistakes. The hardest part about all this is disappointing my family and friends. I know deep down nside of me I can handle this. My brother went through the same thing actually and he is very successful. I didn't want the same thing to happen to me but I made a mistake and hopefully in thefuture this mistake will turn into a blessing.
well first off i agree with everyone else...i think she cheated...cuz if you guys didnt have sex and she is pregnant its someone elses......but you know what if she is stick around be there to help out...just dont give her money unless you wanna....but wait and see when the baby comes out (if she is pregnant) and get a dna test and see if it your baby.....
and on the parents and family i would wait till it is confirmed and tell them there is a possibility it MIGHT be your baby.....but i wish you the best of luck...and i hope everything goes good.....
god bless and keep us posted
and on the parents and family i would wait till it is confirmed and tell them there is a possibility it MIGHT be your baby.....but i wish you the best of luck...and i hope everything goes good.....
god bless and keep us posted
chris-
I wouldnt tell your parents intill you know for sure that she is pregnant and the dates match with the times you two had sex. unless ofcourse your close and honest with your parents you could go to them now.In the end tho the decision is up to you. For your sake i pray she isnt pregnant and someday you will be a wonderful father. i really dont think your girlfriend is carrying your child she sounds fishy to me.
lets say she is pregnant with another guys child. and maybe she knows that you will step up and do the right thing so the other guy may be a deadbeat soo shes picking you to take care of the other guys baby because she knows he will not. and does not want to do it alone.Shes taking advantage of your kindness etc which is wrong i do NOT agree with cheating and thats what it sounds like. she has done. so like the other woman said get a paternity test plz it would be in your best interest :) i wish you lots of luck.
I wouldnt tell your parents intill you know for sure that she is pregnant and the dates match with the times you two had sex. unless ofcourse your close and honest with your parents you could go to them now.In the end tho the decision is up to you. For your sake i pray she isnt pregnant and someday you will be a wonderful father. i really dont think your girlfriend is carrying your child she sounds fishy to me.
lets say she is pregnant with another guys child. and maybe she knows that you will step up and do the right thing so the other guy may be a deadbeat soo shes picking you to take care of the other guys baby because she knows he will not. and does not want to do it alone.Shes taking advantage of your kindness etc which is wrong i do NOT agree with cheating and thats what it sounds like. she has done. so like the other woman said get a paternity test plz it would be in your best interest :) i wish you lots of luck.
Wow you guys are so young...
I feel sorry for y'all.
Atleast for you because even though you say she's 100% faithful... you aren't with her with every breath she takes- so you wouldn't know what she did the nights you weren't around.
If she had a miscarriage- and it was confirmed, the hgc levels DO NOT start rising all of a sudden unless she's pregnant again.
And if there was no way possible that your sperm had any contact with her vagina- then that says it right there.
Malnutrition does not cause hpt's to come out positive.
If she took 2 and both were positive- then there's the answer to your question.
She needs to get to a doctor and get checked out.
And you n her need to sit down and talk because at her age-
I was 16 almost 3 years ago... I know *I* wasn't very faithful- I went through partners like I went through my underwear.
[[that's very over-exaggerated, but I think you get the idea]]
And I know that even when I was with someone, I'd still end up flirting.
It's just how MOST, not ALL, but MOST, girls that age work.
They dunno what they want, so they have to get a taste of everything.
Unfortunately she's probably sleeping around instead of just flirting like I did.
I know it's probably hard to hear, but the facts stand tall, and you gatta put 2 n 2 together and confront her about it.
I'd just keep it down to a dull roar until the pregnancy is finalized by the doctor.
Because if for some strange reason she's NOT pregnant, and the tests gave a false ++
Which is very RARE, but CAN happen.
But anyways, if she's not, I wouldn't want y'all end up fighting.
Just get the pregnancy confirmed by a doctor- then if it IS what it IS- confront her about what's going on.
I wish you luck and I pray that she's NOT PREGNANT.
I feel sorry for y'all.
Atleast for you because even though you say she's 100% faithful... you aren't with her with every breath she takes- so you wouldn't know what she did the nights you weren't around.
If she had a miscarriage- and it was confirmed, the hgc levels DO NOT start rising all of a sudden unless she's pregnant again.
And if there was no way possible that your sperm had any contact with her vagina- then that says it right there.
Malnutrition does not cause hpt's to come out positive.
If she took 2 and both were positive- then there's the answer to your question.
She needs to get to a doctor and get checked out.
And you n her need to sit down and talk because at her age-
I was 16 almost 3 years ago... I know *I* wasn't very faithful- I went through partners like I went through my underwear.
[[that's very over-exaggerated, but I think you get the idea]]
And I know that even when I was with someone, I'd still end up flirting.
It's just how MOST, not ALL, but MOST, girls that age work.
They dunno what they want, so they have to get a taste of everything.
Unfortunately she's probably sleeping around instead of just flirting like I did.
I know it's probably hard to hear, but the facts stand tall, and you gatta put 2 n 2 together and confront her about it.
I'd just keep it down to a dull roar until the pregnancy is finalized by the doctor.
Because if for some strange reason she's NOT pregnant, and the tests gave a false ++
Which is very RARE, but CAN happen.
But anyways, if she's not, I wouldn't want y'all end up fighting.
Just get the pregnancy confirmed by a doctor- then if it IS what it IS- confront her about what's going on.
I wish you luck and I pray that she's NOT PREGNANT.
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Chris, I have two teenage sons, and your post is my worst nightmare.
If what you are describing is true, you didn't get her pregnant. Hopefully she isn't actually pregnant, but if she is, if what you are saying is true, you aren't the dad.
Prayers she isn't pregnant.
If what you are describing is true, you didn't get her pregnant. Hopefully she isn't actually pregnant, but if she is, if what you are saying is true, you aren't the dad.
Prayers she isn't pregnant.
Oh...wait a minute. I just realized what you're asking about how the ultrasound will help determine if you're the father.
They can measure the baby and figure out the approximate date of conception (within 3 to 4 days). If you look at when the two of you had sex last, then you will be able to tell it could possibly be yours. If the baby's measurements point out that it was concieved in June or early July, and you haven't had sex with her since before her miscarriage in May, then there is NO way you are the father. NO WAY.
That's why the ultrasound will help you out on that part.
They can measure the baby and figure out the approximate date of conception (within 3 to 4 days). If you look at when the two of you had sex last, then you will be able to tell it could possibly be yours. If the baby's measurements point out that it was concieved in June or early July, and you haven't had sex with her since before her miscarriage in May, then there is NO way you are the father. NO WAY.
That's why the ultrasound will help you out on that part.
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