Really Bad Day-Please help me understand

[At The End of My Rope]

Help ME !!!!! I am having the worse day yet after my surgery, my hormones are wacky as all get out....I'm finding fault with my hubby who I love dearly. And he called his daughter and had to talk with his ex- and when he got off I said if you want her back just tell me now...it is bad not tonight my friends I just want to cry....Is this normal...I just feel like I keep getting poopped on everytime I turn around.

CRY CRY CRY...

[ChitChatNine]

HORMONES going down down down and fast I think ......... it is normal even if after any kind of surgery ... I don't think you have had time to properly go thru all the emotions from your surgery diagnosis .... you, unfortunately, have had to sweep them under the rug a bit to get back to work for much-needed reasons.

The loud noises I think you spoke of, etc. is normal after ANY kind of surgery... you feel frayed at the edges.

I *think* the CA diagnosis has something to do with the emotions too and that is being made even more enhanced bcz of everything else going on in your life.

HORMONES ............ (ma hen here says good thing they don't put them in my chicken feed ..... ::wink wink::  pls. laugh once ok?)

[shaerich]

Gosh, I wish I could say the magic words that would make you feel better.  I agree with Cheryl... you had to "hop to it" and didn't get much of a chance to absorb and process the CA diagnosis.  On top of that your boss is being a butthole and you're still healing physically.  That is A LOT to take in all at once... you need a break and it doesn't look like you'll be getting one anytime soon.  

The only thing I can say is don't be too hard on yourself.  Let your hubby know that you don't mean to be irritated with him, but you're just not yourself so he needs to cut you some slack... then cut yourself some slack.  

Wish I could pour you a glass of wine and just "be" with you.  This will pass... I promise... but it's going to take some time.

[NJ Yogini]

Hi there, I had my TT on May 10 and felt great for the first 10 days.....I went back to work on day 10, but for just 4 hours. (I'm an administrator and 'my own boss' so have the luxury of extreme felxibility).  The next day I put in 8 hours and that night I thought I would die!!  I've been back to work full time since, but it's been a real push.  I've managed to get back into going to my yoga classes (I'm not teaching any right now) and the stretching and working of my muscles actually makes me feel better....even when I'm totally dragging myself in to the studio.  It's time that's just for me and is almost like a 'moving meditation.'
Hang in there.  Do the best that you can a work.  It's totally unfortunate that there are such ***holes in charge!!  I'm not that kind of administrator!!!

[At The End of My Rope]

Are you hiring......lol Thanks everyone