opinions on being so in love

[wantingmybaby]

so i am so in love with my ex. he broke up with me 3weeks ago. Im six weeks prego. i found out a couple of days before we broke up. but i wanted to make sure i was i took three test.all postive but i had to get proof for him. i knew he was not gunna be happy about it. so we talked about it.he doesn't want another kid atm.he has two that r in fostercare. he is working on getting them back. but he doesn't think we could afford a kid. so we decided to try to find money for a abortion. idk he says he will find the money.but in doing all this for him.he agreed we will get back together in 3 months when he should get his kids back. n he is gunna buy me a promise ring. n in a few years we r gunna try for a kid. im 21 n i live at home n my mom doesnt know im prego.

[joceeykittykitty]

^exactly

[RaquelJay1989]

The court has made him break up with you??? Lmfao
My bd is fighting for his 4 yr old daughter back cuz his ex wont let him see her, probably because shes jealous of me...
But the courts WILL NOT say "oh if u have a gf, we wont give you your kid back"...
Thats absolutely ridiculous.
Wake up, hes *** you.
Youre gonna do what youre gonna do, but youre gonna regret if/when that dude gets his kids back &you see him playing w/ them & youre just sitting there thinking bout the baby you killed just so he'd stay w/ you..
If he loved you, he'd want you & this new baby.
No matter what other nonsense is going on in his life.

[alexx1216]

She's completely in love. So she's willing to do anything for him & he's just saying what she wants to hear so she doesn't give him another responsibility. But hey if he's as great & amazing as you say he is, then goodluck to you & I hope you don't regret getting rid of your little one at the end.

[NeaBlessed]

Listen sweetie, the courts CANNOT dictate you being around him during this time of his life. If you are not a felon w/ convictions of child abuse of some sort they won't even bother you. Sweetheart he does does want to be bothered with you, as simple as that. By having the baby wont keep him around either. He knew what he was doing while he was havung sex with you, you can ask for so much advice but you will have to learn for yourself, like a lot of us women had to. Never let a man determine what you do with your body. Just because he penetrates you and it may be good, you always, always stay in control of yourself and feelings.

[asholee]

No relationship is worth the life of a child. The only reason i can think of that you would even ask a group if pregnant women this is to have them talk you out of it. Some woman try for years to experience what this man wants you to throw away. I had my first child at 18, had no money and i was so lost. Im now on my third. I am in school to be a social worker and i have a job working with kids. When i was pregnant i had a loser boyfriend who tried to marry me and I dumped him and never looked back. Im not telling you to keep the baby but dont expect a different answer or an approval from women who are so in love with their little babies they are creating. Adoption is a fantastic alternative to abortion because so many mothers want babies and cannot have one of their own.

[joceeykittykitty]

Uhm someone,who loves you wouldn't decide for you but find a way to make everything works. If he put his first children on foster care what makes you think he is actually caring? Yeah he's trying to get them back but he's not thinking of his unborn son or daughter,which basically to me just shuts you out his life . He's not caring for this baby.. I actually would be devastated he would not even try and tell me to get an abortion... I feel like he's lying.. if he wanted to do things with you he'd do it not just tell u.
. That's my opinion though. You choose whatever you like.