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opinions on being so in love

so i am so in love with my ex. he broke up with me 3weeks ago. Im six weeks prego. i found out a couple of days before we broke up. but i wanted to make sure i was i took three test.all postive but i had to get proof for him. i knew he was not gunna be happy about it. so we talked about it.he doesn't want another kid atm.he has two that r in fostercare. he is working on getting them back. but he doesn't think we could afford a kid. so we decided to try to find money for a abortion. idk he says he will find the money.but in doing all this for him.he agreed we will get back together in 3 months when he should get his kids back. n he is gunna buy me a promise ring. n in a few years we r gunna try for a kid. im 21 n i live at home n my mom doesnt know im prego.
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ok yes i understand guys lie but he dont lie bout that kind of stuff.he broke up with me cuz of the courts. the court is making
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Keep the baby! That's all bs like the comment said I think he's making It up! Just so he doesn't have to have this baby. Your so in love without him wait till that baby is gone and you don't have him either. I'm so sorry if that was rude I really was trying to be blunt :/
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I think you should keep the baby a guy gonna tell you what you wanna hear , so you think everything gonna be ok after you have an abortion ? If a guy dont take care of his 1st couple kids I doubt he'll ever change to take care of any after that ... guys are selfish.  I'd keep your baby ... but keep your head up and I'd talk to your mom about all of it
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Talk to our mom... Or friends abortions are a big deal... Also if all else fell try state insurance for help with abortion costs
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Why did he break up with you if hes going to just get back with you? Tbh sounds like hes just making it up..
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not tryna be rude but what if you get the abortion then he leaves you and never gets back with you then you end up regrateting the whole fact that you aborted your own flesh and blood??????
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