Hemorrhoids

[little miss]

Hi! I wanted to make my name little missy, but it was already taken. My name is Melissa, but everyone calls me Missy. I have been having a problem and went to look it up, that's when i found this site. It seems really nice. I hope you all can come up with an answer that will help me and make me feel better. I don't want to go to the doctor, I am very shy. i have been having hemorrhoids really bad. They will bleed even when I'm not going to the bathroom (#2). Today I had blood all over my panties. My Mom told me to put an ice pack. I have and it doesn't help. My boyfriend of seven years and i have anal sex a lot. i know it doesn't help the hemorrhoids, but I really like it. Do any of you know of anything that will help? Thank you in advance.  Missy

[kenziesmom]

I'm not trying to scare you, but I have read that anal sex can lead to colon/rectal cancer.  Think about it.  Your anus is a place to rid your body of fecal matter.  If something is continuously being shoved in there, the fecal matter can become lodged.  Fecal matter that is lodged isn't excreted and becomes toxic.  Toxins can cause cancer.  Please get yourself checked out by a doctor.

[aisham]

I think that you should all respect Little Misses decision, she's an adult.  And please respect her religion.  you don't have to agree with anything she's doing but its her choice.  Please give advise on what she's asking which is help cure hemorroids...she's not asking help to leave her community or her boyfriend.

[sk2006a]

please know that no one here is trying to judge you or make you do something you don't want to do.  we are all just worried and want help.  please stay in contact with us.  does your mother live within your "community" or is she on the outside?

[siren of the sea]

im worried about a few things you said. you stated you are married by some just not legally. yet you still refer to him as your boufriend. sweety are you happy? do you want to leave? if i am wrong i am sorry for assuming. if you do want to leave, to live YOUR life the way you see right. and your children too. then maybe your mom can help. if i am wrong and you want to be with him for the rest of your life then im happy for you. *its always possible to get out when you are afraid to stay-keep that in mind*

[sk2006a]

are you married by what it called a "celestrial ceremony" by any chance?

[siren of the sea]

now is he old fashioned where he can keep you pg and home while he goes out with his other women?? pig! what is this religion? how is it you have given all your values up for him? relationships are about compromise. is he the father of your 5 kids? does he have any by other women? im sorry to ask all this i just wish i could help you. even if you feel you dont need helpand very happy, to me it isnt right. you cant be treated poorly in the name of religion!! would god be happy with not using bc because it is his will, yet your bf can stick his weiner in the place god didnt intend it to go???