Hemorrhoids

[little miss]

Hi! I wanted to make my name little missy, but it was already taken. My name is Melissa, but everyone calls me Missy. I have been having a problem and went to look it up, that's when i found this site. It seems really nice. I hope you all can come up with an answer that will help me and make me feel better. I don't want to go to the doctor, I am very shy. i have been having hemorrhoids really bad. They will bleed even when I'm not going to the bathroom (#2). Today I had blood all over my panties. My Mom told me to put an ice pack. I have and it doesn't help. My boyfriend of seven years and i have anal sex a lot. i know it doesn't help the hemorrhoids, but I really like it. Do any of you know of anything that will help? Thank you in advance.  Missy

[siren of the sea]

im worried about a few things you said. you stated you are married by some just not legally. yet you still refer to him as your boufriend. sweety are you happy? do you want to leave? if i am wrong i am sorry for assuming. if you do want to leave, to live YOUR life the way you see right. and your children too. then maybe your mom can help. if i am wrong and you want to be with him for the rest of your life then im happy for you. *its always possible to get out when you are afraid to stay-keep that in mind*

[aisham]

I think that you should all respect Little Misses decision, she's an adult.  And please respect her religion.  you don't have to agree with anything she's doing but its her choice.  Please give advise on what she's asking which is help cure hemorroids...she's not asking help to leave her community or her boyfriend.

[kenziesmom]

I'm not trying to scare you, but I have read that anal sex can lead to colon/rectal cancer.  Think about it.  Your anus is a place to rid your body of fecal matter.  If something is continuously being shoved in there, the fecal matter can become lodged.  Fecal matter that is lodged isn't excreted and becomes toxic.  Toxins can cause cancer.  Please get yourself checked out by a doctor.

[owen20342]

Those claims hold very little water.... I have been having anal sex for years with my respective girl friends over the years and as a result I know how to prepare them both mentally and physically for the VERY PLEASURABLE act. By the time I have prepared them noit only are they ready to get ****** in the ass but they WANT to get ****** in the ass. Now I'm not going to debate the amount of pleasure a woman (and man) can receive from anal sex but I do want to say that NEVER, in all my years of research have I ever heard of a link between anal sex and colo rectal cancer. It's just ignorant BS in my opinion. Furthermore, Your anus is a place that temporarily holds fecal matter and once it is full of it, it causes a reflex action that triggers the body to expel it (the familiar "I gotta go" feeling). As a result, once you have "gone", your rectum is relatively empty and can be penetrated withot feeling like things are getting jammed back in there. All you have to do is go to the bathroom and then have a nice hot shower to clean yourself properly prior to engaging in any type of ass play. If done correctly, anal sex is not only pleasurable but it's beneficial. You just have to do more research on the  topic. Please don't poison peoples minds with this Bull $hit about how it can give you cancer and cause constipation.... Read up on the subject first!!!!!!!!!

[ib1986]

YES! There IS a link between anal sex and colo-rectal cancer.  HPV, the virus that causes genital warts and cervical cancer also causes colo-rectal cancer.  The skin in the anal canal and on the cervix is actually very similar.  There is such a direct link that it is beginning to be advised that gay men and women practicing anal sex get "anal pap smears" just like sexually active women get pap smears to detect changes in the skin of the anal canal.

[owen20342]

Well if you don't practice safe sex then OF COURSE THERE IS A LINK!!!!

I never said that unprotected sex has nothing to do with any type of disease or ailment did I?????