Hey just wanted to say that when my 6 yr old son started last yr on Ritalin, the dr. Started him on 10mg. I think 25mg is too high especially for a small child. Unfortunately Ritalin did not work for my son because he was dx again with having bipolar. So he is on bipolar Meds. But usually a child with ADHD does not chose when or where he is gonna misbehave, but it also sounds like his mother exasperates his condition.
Here's a thought. His dad is a parent too and can seek medical attention right? Maybe u and dad can get AC second opinion without telling mom. Think about it.
Very good point by allmymarbles!
I have been reading Sandman2's comments and the advice is spot on. I would only disagree on only one point. I don't think you should not be the one to work with the mother. From a legal point of view you are an outsider, and from the mother's point of view, you may have ulterior motives. So your good intentions can be counter-productive.
The main thing is to get help for the boy. This is the job of your husband, his father. I am not saying you should stop helping your stepson, merely that you should not be visible.
Alyssa, per my earlier comments. You have never said how he is getting 25mgs a day. extended release or 5mg/5 times a day or ? You need to know exactly what he is taking!
the one thing that I can say from years of reading posts on this board - and also doing research. If you give a kid without ADHD 25 mgs (no matter what the dose), he will not be tired and sluggish - he will be off the wall. His reaction is really a fairly good indicator he has ADHD. Its also a pretty good sign he is getting an overdose. My other thought is - is he taking any other meds ( different looking pills) when he is at your house? also take a look at the pills he has got to be bringing with him to your house. Post what is written on the pill and I will tell you what he is taking!
Thank you very much and I am worried he has been misdiagnosed. And his mother is very verbally abusive and I believe that is why she is not seeking the help he needs. It has been a few weeks since he started taking the pills and I wanted to see if he had adapted to them but he is still very sluggish, not eating, hearing voices, and depressed. Whenever he would do his homework at our house, he was focused. He would sit down and read or cuddle up to us when watching a movie. I think there is a deeper issue and I am so worried. He is a tiny boy so why would he be on 25 mgs a day?