Should I trust him

[sanjana19]

I am 22 years old.I am with my husband for 7 years...I dated him for 5 years and I am married with him for 2 years.I used to trust him blindly.And he never cheated me.Even he got many sexual offer from girls but he was never interested.But recently I found it that he is watching at girls nude pictures.When I asked him at first he told me that it was not him but his friends did it from his laptop...Later I asked him strictly and he told me that actually he did it and told me that he just randomly went to those pages and he does not have any sexual desire to those girls and even he does not get excited.To prove his words he told me to play a porn.When I did it I saw that after even watching porn he did not get excited.Then why did he go to those pages?What can be the reason?I am so much confused.Should I trust him or not?It is not like that he went to those pages once but several times...He can not explain me why or I am not satisfied with his answer.Can a guy look at these type of picture just for nothing?He is attracted to me and we have great sex life.But after this issue I am thinking that he does not love me and I am not enough for him.Please help me.What should I do?Is he telling the truth or not?

[Maryjane1995]

Guys will lie about not being attracted to other women. Every guy is attrachted to many women but its how they treat you that matters. If he still sexually desires you to the fullest and is only with you sexually and admires you then be happy. As long as he doesn't cheat or flirt with otherg girls than you have nothing to worry about.

[isha65]

Sanjana19 my answer to ur question is same what ellamari wrote. Those pics n videos turn them (men) on. Its manthing. You should not ask him repeatedly regarding this matter. Else he will get annoyed of you. U react as if you r ok with him watching all that and be friendly. You both can have nice time later on. It just to turn on to good mood.

[EllaMari]

So my husband looks at porn, it turns him on but he isn't attracted to the women like he is attracted to me. He wants to have set with me but doesn't want to have sec with the women in the videos. My understanding is he gets turned on by their bodies but not by them personally. I'm still the only one he wants to be with. I think most men feel this way about porn. He loves you. Him looking at porn has nothing to do with you.

[sanjana19]

Then why did he keep telling me that I am the only girl he is attracted.It is not like that I wanted to listen it from him or I asked anything about it but he always used to tell me this and still now he is telling this.Does it mean he is lying to me for years?

[Jinx_777]

ANY guy that claims they are not admiring beautiful, naked women are not being honest.  
that does NOT mean he doesn't love you, he is embarrassed he got caught

unless he is on dating sites looking to hook up, don't worry about it.
tell him it makes you uncomfortable, but he is normal

[sanjana19]

I know he is not liking this but believe me I never doubted him.I always believed his every words.He told me that I am the only girl he is interested in and I believed.Before our marriage he did not let me make any male friend.He never liked if I talk unnecessarily to any boy.He was that much conservative.Though it bothered me but I was happy because I knew that my man is interested only in me.I had this idea for years so now I can not accept him to look at other girls nude pics.

[sanjana19]

But I want to know why he went to those page several times?For what If he does not have any interests?To recognize the beauty of women?But he always kept telling me he likes only me and which girl is beautiful around him does not matter to him.Still now he is telling this.Then why did he went to those pages for several times.

[isha65]

Remember men dont like if their woman unnecessarily doubt on them. 0at your age you may see it as an issue.. if u were 30+ no doubt it sounds like nothing at all as would hav gained more experience in life. Infact you should be focusing on your future plans now.