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Hi. When I was younger,about 12, i had dreams of having sex and they were extremely vivid and i could actually feel a sensation in my vagina. At the age of 14 my boyfriend forcibly fingered me and I noticed that the sensation was exactly the same as in my dreams. Is it possible that someone might have fingered me in my sleep. I have noticed that my dad likes to put his hand on my upper thigh and that he checks me out in my swimwear and when I wear shorts. Could it . . .be him?
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535822 tn?1443976780
zyxwvut is correct I also think talking it through with someone you trust or a counsellor is the way to go .
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they might be repressed memories, but they might be nothing, you should talk to someone you trust about this
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as far as I know,this is a support community. i can post as many questions as I want. You don't know my father and I simply asked if it is possible. I am not a dream expect. Just wanted imput before I spoke to someone about it.I will no longer make use of your services. Thank you
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as far as I know,this is a support community. i can post as many questions as I want. You don't know my father and I simply asked if it is possible. I am not a dream expect. Just wanted imput before I spoke to someone about it.I will no longer make use of your services. Thank you
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as far as I know,this is a support community. i can post as many questions as I want. You don't know my father and I simply asked if it is possible. I am not a dream expect. Just wanted imput before I spoke to someone about it.
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13167 tn?1327194124
nunikins,  I think you are in VERY VERY dangerous territory considering accusing a man of molesting you when you have no proof or evidence that he did.

Sex dreams feel like sex.  Mental stimulation feels like physical sexual stimulation, and women and men have orgasms in their sleep,  because their brains have convinced their bodies there's stimulation going on.  Considering this happened several times and you never woke up to find your father in your bed doing anything,  I think you can safely discard any belief that this more than just erotic dreams.

I'm curious about your other posts.  You've got several posts,  strung about 4 months time saying your boyfriend just fingered you with precum and you might be pregnant.  Same story,  several different posts,  the only thing that changes is the date when this possible pregnancy issue occurred,  in December or February,  take your pick.  Same exact details.




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535822 tn?1443976780
It may be a good thing to speak to your mom about this concern, it could simply be dreams , but it has been known to be an abuser, how you handle it is up to you ...
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