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[babyboyonboard]

I been in a on & off relationship with my ex boyfriend who is now my baby daddy for 2 years. we just recently got serious last year & he became abusive last year in november. it only got worse & worse the longer I stayed with him. I've had several black eyes, busted lips, bruises. I had to stop hanging out with friends & seeing my family every now & then so they wouldn't notice anything. he was very paranoid & thought I was always cheating on him yet I always showed him I was faithful but he still never believed me. I ended up finding out I was pregnant in march & moved in with him & his family. he left me at 3 months so I moved back into my families house. when I was 4 months we agreed to work things out but a couple days later he got arrested for being physically abusive with me. he's been trying to contact me since then but I haven't wrote him back or answered his calls. just needed to get this off my chest since I dont vent to anyone!

[allmymarbles]

Leaving him was the right thing to do and you didn't even need our advice. Cheers!

[allmymarbles]

Leaving him was the right thing to do and you didn't even need our advice. Cheers!

[babyboyonboard]

thank you :) yea I don't plan on getting back with him EVER again! I'm done with him. I just want to focus on being a first time mom to my son. thanks for the advice & support! (:

[margypops]

Totally agree, stay away from him ...it would be bad for baby to see and hear any abuse .so that gives you incentive.Good luck with baby .

[Nighthawk61]

Hey new mom, i'm sorry that your baby;s daddy is such an oaf, unfortunately most times that a man is paranoid about unfaithfulness is because his on the brink of cheating himself, and is just looking for an excuse. Unless he works on his anger through anger management he will not stop. Unfortunately court imposed anger management is like court imposed drug rehabilitation and rarely works, you see , he has to really want to get help himself. He can say he's sorry every time, but unless he gets help it's usually manipulation. Anyways , that been my history with my first husband, along with threatening death if i ever left with his baby. I was very young with my first husband and ending up having a miscarriage because of the insanity. So, be very careful with your pregnancy because any abuse can put your baby at risk. I think you should get a protective order against him, and unless he is able to pull a rabbit out of a hat, hope that he looks elsewhere to fill his time. Thanks for posting. There are many that have been in the same position here to help you~ I'm glad that you are safe and have a family to support you. I'll be here to talk should you wish to. Keep up the good work mom, and only look forward to the good times ahead!!! God Bless and best wishes with the pregnancy.