child abuse

[chantelleAlyce]

My sister went for a playdate with another mum who has a daughter 3 and a half and a boy 8 months. When she got there the mother had cut herself and saying how she abuses the kids and doesn't want to live anymore she's on ice and hates her kids and that the reason her daughters dad is in jail is because she let him rape her. Her son has a different dad who has a heroin addiction. My sister offered to take the girl home with her for the night, my sister also has a 3 year old and 1 year old daughter. She couldn't take the boy because his dad woulda came around a possibly killed my sister for taking him. Tilly, who is the little girl can barely talk , she is on the same academic level as my son who is 18 months. My sister bathed her a d said she was so dirty like she hadn't been washed for days. Her private bits were so inflamed with thrush. So we think her step dad maybe raping her to and she has bruises all over her body. Were so affraid as her son also has bruises on him. We want to call child protection, but were also so scared the father will do something to us.

[margypops]

Report to child services is the answer, ASAP

[22mommy2b3]

Im sorry but i find that bit a load of BS!!! how can u guys talk about safety?? Really??? 2 babies lives r in tormemt. What about their safety. As i said the police will not let u get hurt! give me the address and names of the ppl with babies i will call for u if u can not do it. They can only have as much power. As u give them!!!

[kenneltech]

If your sister knows of someone who is abusing their kids and does nothing, then essentially she is active in that abuse.  It's called guilt by association and personally, I wouldn't be able to live with myself if something happened to one of those kids and I sat and did nothing.

[allmymarbles]

Why have you not commented?

[allmymarbles]

You do not understand what the police can do and can not do. They most assuredly do not provide body guards for endangered people.

[22mommy2b3]

Omg please call the police, they will makr sure u and ur family are safe. Tell them ur afraid for your safety. But please get those babies help!!!! They could wind up dead if u dont help. They were put in your path brcause u have a nrain and the will to stoo this wrong. Believe in god he will help and give the strength. I am a mommy of 2 soon to be 3 and to imagine thoae poor babies there makes me nautious to my stomache. Please help them. They cant help themselves theyre just babies. Please let us know what happens and of i wont then give someone on here the address and names of everyone involved so they can call the authorities!! Imagine ur children in this! Thats so sad......

[allmymarbles]

I agree that harming children is a cowardly unforgivable crime. But as horrible as such a thing is, the safety of my family comes first. Only if I were absolutely sure we were not in danger would I contact the authorities. A lioness' first duty is to her cubs.

[margypops]

I agree with the others we hope you made that call, could you let us know ...

[secrets16]

i say no matter what call ss because if you dont the child will either be killed or grow up having issues.both of them babies dont deserve that but they dont know better.the family cannot do anything to you because once they see those bruises both adults will go to jail for the abuse.they deserve what ever they get for hurting those babies.plus social services dont tell the other party who called them if you want.just ask to be anonymous but it is important that the baby gets outta there with her brother alive.

[allmymarbles]

First and foremost is the safety of your sister and your nieces. Why not suggest to her that she steer clear of that unsavory mother and her unsavory male partners.

If your sister can be sure of the safety of her own family, she should get in touch with the authorities. Since you have your own family to protect, you might not want to get involved. Drugs, rape, filth, abuse - very, very nasty and dangerous.

(Actually I don't believe the rape part. Since when do you "let" someone rape you.)

[heartfluttersflyawayplz]

wow really sad for that baby girl. please get her help, shes a baby and hes having sex with her how wrong please dont sit by and let this happen to her. God put her in your path so you could get her out of that house and in a safe  home. if i was there i would do it for you. dont let this go on another day for the little girl my heart hurts for her.

[margypops]

By saying your mom I am assuming you are a young person albeit with children and maybe someone older will carry weight but possibly a call from all..

[margypops]

You have to be strong I know this can be a scary situation but child services know how to deal with situations like this . If there is abuse of this child it will continue ,so I ask you to step up to the plate and get the authorities involved what about your Mom I think this should be coming from her. Well done in wanting help this child and maybe other children , make that call you will be glad you did ...