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what should i do
i had sex with a man approximately 3 mths ago, he broke the condon and came inside me. been depress eversince. i have lost weight. i feel he gave me a terrible disease. am waiting for my hiv result. i should have reported him to the police a long time ago. :(
I'm glad your test was negative! Must be a huge relief!
However, I wouldn't say that staying away from men and overgeneralizing to say they ALL can't be trusted is healthy. You might benefit from talking to a therapist to get through these issues.
Just because ONE man broke a hole in his condom doesn't mean they ALL will. I would say simply exercising discretion in choosing your sexual partners (whether this means only sleeping with someone after you've known them for a certain amount of time and have been in a relationship with them or supplying your own condoms would be up to you.) would be a good step in the right (healthy) direction.
Not all men are creeps like this one was.
However, I wouldn't say that staying away from men and overgeneralizing to say they ALL can't be trusted is healthy. You might benefit from talking to a therapist to get through these issues.
Just because ONE man broke a hole in his condom doesn't mean they ALL will. I would say simply exercising discretion in choosing your sexual partners (whether this means only sleeping with someone after you've known them for a certain amount of time and have been in a relationship with them or supplying your own condoms would be up to you.) would be a good step in the right (healthy) direction.
Not all men are creeps like this one was.
i receive my hiv test result an hour ago. it is negative... am going to keep away from men... cant be trusted.
But nothing will come of it if you go to the police. Unless you have a witness or a recording of him saying this, it's just a he said-she said case, and he would definitely not be telling the police that he purposefully broke a condom. They wouldn't be able to do anything about it since there would be no definitive proof either way and it was consensual sex. I would do as RockRose suggested and see a therapist regarding the depression and anxiety. Hopefully you didn't get anything, but there's nothing the police can do on this matter.
the condom didnt broke purposely he told me 4 to 5 days later that he broke it. i think he gave me hiv. i will know monday when i picked up my result.
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