Hi Deb !
I think its great that Sal is trying to work-out her feelings as to why she needs to escape with the Soma. I have a feeling you will probably have more incidents in the future with Soma, unfortunately, but having you as her "rock" will keep her in check in the future.
Like you posted....."A slip is not a fall" Expect that there may be more slips in the future. God Bless you for giving your partner a comfortable, understanding, and safe place to land.
Your understanding is a Godsend to her and she knows it. Just make sure she does not abuse it. Addicts are the greatest manipulators so you need to keep your eyes open and behind your head.
bless you both.
Luv,
Nauty............
Hey girl. Thanks. I work hard at keeping my eyes open and the communication line open. The truth is...is that she could get any kind of drugs she wanted to at any time. We both know that. She does want to be well and whole. It takes time and work...just like our relationship.
You are probably right. There will probably be more incidences. It cannot be easy as Addiction's goal is to steal, kill and destroy. So I will remain diligent, loving and prayerful. Keeps me on my toes.
I missed you!!! So glad to hear from you, girl. So glad you are still around and being REAL. Always loved that about you!!!!
Kisses and love,
Debbie