Have you looked into ALANON ? I think the program was made for you. Addicts blame everyone but themselves . When people act dishonest and manipulative they assume everyone else does too. When you close your eyes and picture your life in five years or in one does it look like your life now? Or worse ? If not then take action. Control what you can which is you. Someone has to act in your best intrest, why couldn't that be you? Just food for thought
Becca
First of all you can listen to what he has said in his addiction, and that is to leave him alone, move on, he accuses you of situations you had NO control over, or was even involved with, stole money, blames you for everything wrong in his life......
Wow, I am sorry but what more can anyone say that even competes with what he has told you?? His addiction as a side, why on earth do you think you should be treated this way...... and to tolerate it?? Yes walk away, forget that, run as fast as you can..... and I really hope you get some counselling to help you understand why you think he is someone that you would chose to be in your life....... You do know you have been treated with total and complete disrespect???? Focus on your life, so you can be stronger and in a healthy relationship next time.......