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So Upset- Unbelievable Bad Mom
omg im so upset right now..i took the boys with me to a thrift shop so we could get some things (i often go to this place and love it) and sometimes they have foodbanks donate food to them a few times a week, and I was hoping they'd have some free bread and veggies/fruits today but they didnt...but anyhow thats not what got me upset. While we were there, some trashy girl was in there with her mom and her two little kids. One was a newborn baby girl. SHe had left the baby in a carseat in the shopping cart, and walked down an aisle to look at something, leaving the baby alone. Well, her little boy who looked to be about 2 or 3 at the most, tried to climb in the cart to get a toy out of it. He somehow managed to flip the entire cart over, which fell onto him, and threw his baby sister out of it onto the flooor. WHat did the mom do before even picking up her baby or pick the cart up off her boy?? starts cussing at the top of her lungs to the boy "you little stupid shitthead what the fckk are you doing, goddamn you little sonofabitch!!" I couldnt even believe it!!!! so then she finally picks up the screaming baby, rocks her a few times then starts screamign at the boy again "Im gonna beat your *** you stupidass, all of this over a stupid fckking toy!!!" and she takes the toy and WHIPS it as hard as she can into the toy bin and says "MAWWW are you ready to go!!! you pay for this shitt" and she walked out with the baby!! So the little boy is crying his eyes out and a few minutes pass, and in walks the trashy mom again with a cigarette in her mouth (walked right into teh store with it!!) and says where are my damn sunglasses at??? (she had a black eye btw, probably got it from an abusive boyfriend...hmm), then snatches her glasses up and walks back out...well she left that baby alone in the car whle she came back in for this!! I was just absolutely astounded by all of this and felt SO BAD for those kids!! I wanted so bad to hug that little boy and tell him its okay, it was just an accident honey. WHy didnt I?? why didnt i say anythign to that mom?? (and i use that term loosely) So my 5 year old comes to the rescue. He said to me MOM that boy is sad, can i give him one of these trucks (i had a baggie of trucks I was buying for them for a dollar) so my sweet 5 year old gave the poor little boy 2 trucks- one from him and one from his little brother. I just about burst into tears! We all left the place feeling somber and i cringe to thnk what kind of home life those poor babies must have when they are behind closed doors.
oh, and btw, i fixed my own car in case youre wondering how we are getting around since i told you how i t wouldnt start Saturday night when i was trying to leave home with the kids. It was just a loose battery cable (which has me suspicious how this happen... if it were just a mere mechanical failure of something i wouldnt think much, but come on...how often does a battery cable just unconnect itself from the batterY?? i think the husband did it!! Ive been meaning to respond to some of the posts IVe seen by Nauty and (Confused??) when you gals say you can fix cars. I used to be incredibly handy at that myself too when i was in my early twenties. I could identify any external or internal engine component and tell you exactly what each one did. I used to work on cars quite a bit back in the day until the ******* husband started sucking the life out of me even back then about it. he'd tell me i wasnt doing this or that right and become very verbally hostile over it so much that i finally gave it up all together and just let him fix everything.
wow. am i getting off on a real tangent here, lol. Sorry about that. I just had to vent though about everything. and this will probably get pulled/moved anyways so i will make this drug related....umm.......i didnt take any vicodin......LOL...
oh, and btw, i fixed my own car in case youre wondering how we are getting around since i told you how i t wouldnt start Saturday night when i was trying to leave home with the kids. It was just a loose battery cable (which has me suspicious how this happen... if it were just a mere mechanical failure of something i wouldnt think much, but come on...how often does a battery cable just unconnect itself from the batterY?? i think the husband did it!! Ive been meaning to respond to some of the posts IVe seen by Nauty and (Confused??) when you gals say you can fix cars. I used to be incredibly handy at that myself too when i was in my early twenties. I could identify any external or internal engine component and tell you exactly what each one did. I used to work on cars quite a bit back in the day until the ******* husband started sucking the life out of me even back then about it. he'd tell me i wasnt doing this or that right and become very verbally hostile over it so much that i finally gave it up all together and just let him fix everything.
wow. am i getting off on a real tangent here, lol. Sorry about that. I just had to vent though about everything. and this will probably get pulled/moved anyways so i will make this drug related....umm.......i didnt take any vicodin......LOL...
What amazes me is this lady has not one...but two children. I am sorry but she should not have neen allowed to reproduce after the first child!
What a piece of sh!t. Seriously. Absolute garbage.
And, the reason u didnt say anything is....well, u almost can't. Sadly, in this society, you never know who ur messin' with. You have kids, etc. You can't chance stepping into a situation like that. For all you know, she would have followed u home, etc. I know that sounds paranoid, but, these days one can't be too sure.
What a piece of sh!t. Seriously. Absolute garbage.
And, the reason u didnt say anything is....well, u almost can't. Sadly, in this society, you never know who ur messin' with. You have kids, etc. You can't chance stepping into a situation like that. For all you know, she would have followed u home, etc. I know that sounds paranoid, but, these days one can't be too sure.
I have seen this to many times. What the heck are these mothers thinking? This is no way to bring up children. It was more important to scream at the little boy than it was to take care of the baby! I just dont get it. These people should be locked up in jail.
you are a good person and a good mother. It reflects in your children. To think your baby felt compassion for that little boy should make you proud. as for that woman, any woman can give birth that doesnt make her a mom. Both women, the mom and grandmother needs their a s s kicked. I cannot stand by quietly and have gotten myself in messes before by getting involved when I see a child or animal abused. I would have called the police too, but what was the people who worked there doing? why didnt they call the police? so many people now a day don;t want to get involved. until a child is killed by an abusive parent...sorry will get off my soap box now.
Karen
Karen
JUST BE SURE THAT IF BY CHANCE YOU COULD FIND OUT INFO ON HER WHERE ABOUTS, DO NOT LET HER KNOW YOU TURNED HER IN. SHE ISN'T GOING TO BE NICE TO YOU OR ANYBODY!! ONCE I MADE THE MISTAKE OF GOING IN A BAR TO FIND THE LADY WHO LEFT HER TWO TODDLERS, ONE A BABY, IN A CAR. SHE CAME OUT AND ALMOST BEAT THE YOU KNOW WHAT OUT OF ME. THE GIRL I WORK WITH CALLED THE POLICE AND SHE BEAT THE YOU KNOW OUT OF THEM AND THEY HAD TO WOMP ON HER, HANDCUFF HER AND SHE KICKED THEIR CAR A BUNCH!! THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN ME!! SOOOOOOOOOO I LEARNED TO NOT SAY ANYTHING, JUST CALL THE COPS, GET SOME INFO ON THE SLY, DO NOT INTERVENE FACE TO FACE. THE GRANDMOTHER PROBABLY TREATED THE YOUNG MOM THE SAME WAY. SO IT IS A CIRCLE. SAD. I CAME TO THIS SITE TO ASK A MEDICAL QUESTION AND HERE I AM ANGRY AT STUPID SAD MEAN WITCHES LIKE THESE. I AM GOING TO GO KISS MY KIDS AND MAKE MY DAY BETTER. GET A PHONE VIDEO OF IT NEXT TIME, GET THE LICENSE PLATE NO. CAR DESCRIPTION, ASK THE CLERK WHO THEY ARE, WHERE THEY LIVE, TURN HER IN BUT DO NOT TELL YOUR NAME, OR SHE WILL COME FIND YOU OR HER MOM WILL!! THEY HAVE KIDS SO THEY CAN GET MONEY FROM WELLFARE AND BUY CIGS!!THE MORE COMPLAINTS SHE GETS AGAINST HER THERE WILL BE CHILD PROTECTIVE INVESTIGAITIONS, BUT FIRST SOMEBODY HAS TO TURN HER IN, YOU WILL FEEL BETTER, YOU WILL BUMP INTO HER AGAIN, REMEMBER ON THE SLY, DO NOT RISK HER HURTING YOUR KIDS OR WORSE KILLING YOU, THEN YOUR KIDS WILL SUFFER, I GOT TO GO KISS MY KIDS, HANG IN THERE, CANDI
God puts us right where we're supposed to be...I think He put you there to hear what your boys hear when you and your husband fight. *now, don't get me wrong..I'm not saying it's like that you don't direct anything towards them but they hear the yelling and cursing, mine did* but when I read your story, I was sick to my stomach and scared for her children and I could feel you shocked and scarred too as you told it. I can't imagine how bad that was for you. That's how I think our children feel when they hear mommy and daddy fight. Shocked and scarred. We have to think about what it does to the kids and remember what we felt like during this story. And We're adults!!! I'm still upset!! Where's my pills!!!!????
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I am telling you I would have beat the F$%& out of that b%&$#....she does not even deserve to be a mother!!!! GGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
I would have treated her just like she did her son, and then said, how the **** does it feel B&^%$...then I would have called PS on her dumb a$$!!!
Oh, well, now I have to go clean or something cuz I am all worked up now!!
I would have treated her just like she did her son, and then said, how the **** does it feel B&^%$...then I would have called PS on her dumb a$$!!!
Oh, well, now I have to go clean or something cuz I am all worked up now!!
The abuse in which you were a witness to is no doubt a non-stop cycle of abusive behavior in that entire family. I'm so sorry you had to see this. I have been thinking about this since you posted it and it makes me so mad! To treat defensless children that way is no doubt going to teach them to abuse their own children and so on and so on, it's horrifying. I'm just feeling so bad for that little boy and that little baby!
BUT, I just wanted to say, wow, what compassion you have taught your own children, be proud, you seem like a very good mother. And you just never know, by posting what you did, if somebody on the forum has an encounter like you did, one of us just may be more prepared in which to do something, call the police, take down a license plate number, etc., so THANK YOU!!!
BUT, I just wanted to say, wow, what compassion you have taught your own children, be proud, you seem like a very good mother. And you just never know, by posting what you did, if somebody on the forum has an encounter like you did, one of us just may be more prepared in which to do something, call the police, take down a license plate number, etc., so THANK YOU!!!
I will consider your post my 'emotional roller coaster' for the day.In the beginning it made me soooo mad I would have liked to reach out and touch that so called mother.The grandmother needs a swift kick too for not intervening.Then in the middle it made me cry.I feel sorry for those kids,some people don't deserve such blessings.You're kids on the other hand are very blessed to have a mom like you.For your little boy to feel that other childs pain and want to comfort him well I suspect thats something he learned from his mom.I've read your post and I know you have a full plate right now , but I wanted to tell you what an inspiration you are to other moms out there.Especially some who aren't having to deal with all the personal drama you've had to recently and yet your still fighting the good fight,staying drug free.In the end of your post I do have to admit you made me laugh a little with how you referred to your husband and the sucking the life out of you statement.lol. It sounds to me like you still got alot of life left in ya. You should be so proud of yourself.I sincerely hope you know that.I wish you and your babies all the best.Peace.
next time get the lisence plate # and turn it in to cps. she should never be a mother. i understand, cause i recently saw something that had me concerned, too, but it wasn't blatant abuse like this was. i know it is hard to know what to do in a situation like that, but it would help with the conscience if we did something about it.
Lucy
Lucy
Wow, what a story! Im glad I wasnt their, I cant stand to hear about stuff like that happening much less see it. Sometimes theirs women in this world who think just because they can reproduce & have a child that they are mothers, this is not true, I,ve seen women who are the best moms who are not even biologically related, & I have seen women like the one you are regarding to, who should never have had children, its very sad, but unfortunatly a all to familiar thing that happens when women have kids for their own benifet, never really understanding what it takes or even how to care for children. Penelope
Wow that is awful but there are people out there and we can't stop them from havi1ng kids. Just think of it this way when these kids grow up they won't talk to mommy
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