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11 MONTHS TODAY

Very close to one yr!!!  This has been by far the hardest thing i have ever done...The last month has been really hard, so and prayers will help.. my daughter is just starting on her recovery, and it is just hard to watch your child go through the same thing...Prayers for her to would be great....NEVER give up...Never thought a internet forum could help save my life..I am forever gratefull to everyone ..
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r2r
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Way to go girl!!!
Very proud of you.
It has been a journey and you continue to gain positive momentum. I know life just gets better and better as more time goes by. You are an inspiration to everyone who comes to this forum. Love you for all that you are. There is no turning back.
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446097 tn?1223694666
CONGRATULATIONS!  Keep doing what you are doing.  Your stories and presence are so helpful for all of us!
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CONGRATULATIONS!  you've worked hard and done so well, proud of ya lady!
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r2r, i jus saw this post , its 1130 pm, so ima go hit the club n celebrate for ya!!!! oh, wait, no im not ima go to bed n be a good boy!!! LOL, for real i got mad respect for ya, i am very proud of you, and i wantcha to know that you have been a personall inspiration to me. thanx for listenin when im down, and pickin me back up. MUCH LOVE!!
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371980 tn?1276740809
well girl.........well done! You have helped me some much.u have no idea what u meen to me! Luv ya and keep up the good work!! Conrats..Congrats...Congrats!!
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452063 tn?1324074916
Congrat on 11 months. That's great. My prayers are with you and your daughter. I had to watch my son get clean before I did and it's been over 3 years for him from heroin so it can be done and I'm sure you will be an inspiration to your daughter. GBU ,Corey
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401095 tn?1351391770
U go girl...keep on moving forward...dont let me catch up with u!  LOL
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402205 tn?1230481005
11 months is so great. I'm so impressed that even with what you have going on in your life you're still staying strong and not using. Congratulations and I will keep you and your daughter in my prayers.

Melissa
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442658 tn?1563386491
HOW WONDERFUL...MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.  10 MORE MONTHS FOR ME AND I LL BE AT 11 MONTHS.  CAN T WAIT.  STAY FOCUSED! MARIA
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214607 tn?1287677559
OMG.....honey...I am so darn happy for you...

You and i started here together and I am just thrilled for you. I remember how bad we both were and I remember our talks to get through it, I miss you and lvoe you to death...

Take care honey.....

Sorry I havnet' been around...But I am here now...

xo
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Thanks...Although you are not an addict, you love one that is...And that is tougher then i thought...Yes i was talking about her when i said the last month has been tough, and when things got tough i always turned to pills, now I am turning to prayer....She makes a meeting everyday, she has to do 90 in 90 days...BUT i can see she is struggling ..And i guess because i know exactly what that feels like , makes it tougher...Maybe if i didn't , I would say to her just stop , and move on....BUT i know how difficult that is.. I think as parents it is easier to have ourselves hurt, but not our kids....So my heart goes out to you too...But if she is inpatient right now, she will get all the tools she needs, and have a much higher chance to beat this with your support....I am here anytimes u want to talk about it...
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r2r
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Congratulations on 11 months. That is HUGE. I'm doin' the happy dance!
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496208 tn?1271339076
Congratulations on 11 months!!! That's an accomplishment to be proud of.

Thanks for the post.
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Congrats on 11 mos. sobriety!!  I want to thank you for being there for me, when I felt completely overwhelmed and lost trying to help my daughter with her addiction.  She is on day 6 in rehab, and so far, so good.  The w/d's obviously aren't pleasant and today they will be taking her off the suboxone, so should be another bumpy day.   How is your daugher doing?  I noticed you said the past month has been really hard and I assumed you were talking about your daugher, I hope she is doing okay.

You are a weatlth of information, and have always treated me with compassion and concern.  Completely void of any judgement.  Your support has meant more to me than I can put into words.

Be so very proud of yourself,  11 months!!!!   And I continue to wish  stregnth for you and peace for you and your girl.    Jeanette
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Thanks everyone , you all have played a part in this for me...Toxic-- you are right it is still one day at a time, i never want to let my guard down...
I feel great, and it is so nice to not think about counting, calling, chasing pills....
Hugs to everyone
r2r
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390416 tn?1275185087
r2r....CONGRATS on 11 MONTHS!! Be PROUD!!

This IS a difficult journey...but just think how courageous each one of us is to have taken this step to improve our lives.
I just told my sister yesterday...what doesnt' kill me makes me stronger...lol

Be thankful that you can be a positive influence for your daughter. Being an addict yourself, you can relate to what she's going thru and you can be a HUGE support for her.

Even at 11 months...remember to stay in the day...and take it ONE day at a time. After we get some months under our belt..I think we tend forget this. She will be ok...and you will too!

Keep working it...together!!
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340590 tn?1290952141
GOOD JOB....  i am so proud of you.  you have been there for me ever since i found medhelp....you are a ture inspiration.  you will have your year before you know it...keep it up.  love ya girl.
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well this is the 3rd time i have said congrats, but you deserve it. CONGRATS CONGRATS CONGRATS:) almost a year now, wow. i think medhelp should cut some checks for 1 year anniversaries or pay for a big medhelp bash, maybe ill put that up on suggestion list lol. well done girl.
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495284 tn?1333894042
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Congrats!!!  That is great.  You both will be in my prayers.        sara
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Congratulations!! I am so happy for you ,and for your daughter. I know how hard it must be watching your child go through this too..You both will be in my prayers. You have had to go through alot and I am so glad you have stayed in the fight..keep on going girl!! Whooo Hoooooo......♥Lisa
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352798 tn?1399298154
Way to go r2r!!!! You have been such a help to me, too.
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199177 tn?1490498534
R2R , you know I am darn proud of you and I luv ya girl . keep it up we are both right down the road from a year woooo hoooo.
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That is fantastic!! Almost a year...can't wait to read that post.

I will keep you guys in my prayers!

JoAnn
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