Glad you found this forum! I just want to say that the fear of withdrawals is often worse than the actual act. We can come up with all sorts of reasons to stay on the pills because of it. The one thing (among many) that helped me was to think of it as having the flu. In many ways withdrawal symptoms are the same. Check out the Thomas Recipe here:
http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/Addiction/Thomas-Recipe-Re-Posted/show/16?cid=66
I found it very helpful as has many others who are detoxing.
When you have the flu...you just have to treat the symptoms as they occur. You can't stop the flu..you just have to get thru it. 3-5 days of feeling sucky and anxious and you will start to feel better.
The hard part is after. Staying off the pills is the hard part..harder than the withdrawals. But it can be done. Getting help here and in the real world is a must. I hid it all and failed miserably every time. For me it took telling my two adult children and husband. Once I got the secret out..it made all the difference. I discovered the secret made me sicker. Everyone is different in that respect. What really helped the most was telling my doctor. Maybe I was lucky, but she helped me so much.
If you can't do any of the telling...you can still do it...depends on your situation and level of need. I needed them to help me..others have done it alone. Either way, it is possible.
Keep coming here as you detox..many have found it makes a bi difference getting help as you go thru the process.