Deaadiction from codeine at home

[jaan2211]

Dear all,
I am a 32 yrs old individual male with my family of a wife & a sweet little daughter of 5 yr old.I am a normal guy .5 yrs ago dua to a break in my job i started taking alcohol in evening at home.(normally 2 large pegs).My wife is well educated female and we had a love marriage.Every thing was going fine til my job ended unexpectedly.I thought its not a big deal as i am well educated with superb personality and communication skill.At that point i thought to take rest of 15 days at home then i would look out for new job but god had something else in stored for me.I got friendly to a mechanic in my surrounding and started taking alcohol in day time also.soon i found myself broke as i had stopped looking for job.My wife hadnt said any thing coz she was herself engaged in her proffesional career & she had a blind faith for me.But one day i got sick...with a severe abdomen pain..it was so intense that we had to rush to emergency of one hospital at 2:30 a.m in morning.After diagonosis doctors told us that due to heavy & regular drinking i had Acute pancreatitis.They adfvised me not to take alcohol any more.I listened but after coming back to home it started again & with in a year i was hospitalised thrice letting my wife faith on me completely shattered .At last i my self gave it a serious thought and started taking rexcof.It works amazingly...i left drinking & so does the circle of that mechanic.
I got a new job with manager(admn,) designation.I worked too hard and induldge myself completely to my work.After 2 yrs i found my self standing on a point when i could starts my own firm.& i does the same.As thought it was a great result and still I am running couple of my companies in prime location of new delhi & noida.
During all this incidents i lost my feelings towards my wife & sex.Now there is a big melodrama in my life.My wife says i dont love her & also not interestedv in sex.& she hold rexcof addiction responsible for this.
First i wanna know does coddeine addiction has anything to do with lack of sexual urge?...& I realy wants to leave this for my wife & daughter.From lat two years i am taking 2-3 bottles of rexcof.It never effects my work.but once i tried leaving it ...which gave me intense w/d symptoms.KINDLY SUGGEST ME HOW TO LEAVE THIS BLOODY THING & MAKE MY PRECIOUS FAMILY HAPPIER AS EARLIER>ALSO I CANT HAVE LUXURY OF ADDMITTING MY SELF TO REHAB....NONO>>>NOT BCOZ OF LACK OF MONEY>>BUT ITS BCOZ OF LACK OF TIME>
THANKS>>looking forward for a practical,serious & genuine advice.BYE

[ROSYouralright]

And yes my friend, drugs do affect our thinking and how we act!! Good job on deciding to quit!! You CAN do it... You got some fantastic advice in the above post!

[OpenMind24hours]

You will indeed need to go through WD in order to get to the other side to freedom. First thing we always suggest is to see a doctor. Get a physician on your side and you have the medical help with prescriptions like Clonidine to help you through. You'll need to "be sick" for a short duration, but we have the Thomas Recipe down below with helpful items to take care of what will be going on with you. Along with those items, get magnesium tabs and super B complex. Also get Epsom Salts. Most important for all the hot baths you'll be taking as you go through this. The hot bath is a great tool to diffuse anxiety, muscles aches, and it helps you to relax to get sleep. Also, post every day, let us know how you feel, enlist support. You don't have to do this alone. We're here for support.

We've all gone through it. We're all alive and well and grateful for our freedom from our drugs of choice. Glad you're going to join us! Congratulations on your decision to get your life back!