support for family of addicted user trying to detox

[Luminajulie]

Hi,
My 73 year old dad just went to the hospital tonight for help with detox from ms contin.  He has used it for 6 years.  I am trying to learn about how to help him.  Can anyone recommend support groups for family?
Thanks,
Lumina

[msdelight]

Julie we have a wonderful forum here called living with an addict which will help you work out your feelings about your dad's issue. However I suspect he is a pain patient or has other medical problems. In any case just be kind to him, offer an ear, help him with his symptoms as they come. We can help you with that. Support his efforts as best you can and help him accomplish the goals detox sets up for him. Don't be to hard on him. Opiates take over your mind and body. No one wants to be an addict, they just want to feel better.  Good luck and here to help if you want to elaborate.

[jifmoc]

Hey Julie. All you can do is be there. The hospital will take care of him and direct him. I'm sure they will recommend aftercare (AA/NA) for dealing w/ life once the drugs are removed.

You don't have to behave any way towards him. However you feel is fine. If you're angry, be angry. Addiction invades all family members.

If you are worried or obsessing about your Dad, please go to an Alanon mtg. They are designed for loved ones of addicts/alcoholics.

Take care of YOURSELF. Your Dad is an adult and he has his own journey. Let it happen:)

[spider6]

Hi there lumina. Welcome, this a a great place to get some info there's a lot of people who know their stuff,  Unfortunately, it's really early still and not a lot are around....""be patient, someone will be by, keep checking back.. Hugs