i am at a loss for words. let me know what happens or if you need to talk you can send me a private message on here. all my prayers, sway
sorry im still trying to work out the posting on this forum .. wanted to say thanks to everyone that has posted.
Thanks for your support Sway and im so sorry your mom never got to see you clean. I will always support her .. but sadly the trust has gone , after her recovery i didnt think she would go back. Sadly i feel we have lost her .. i think she is two far gone .. i have a glimpse of hope but it is fading . Im trying so hard to protect my other children and im suffering with panic attacks since finding out on saturday about the relapse .. my heart is beating to fast and i have been put on beta blockers .so the stress is starting to show .. i have realised unless she wants the help there is nothing i can do .. which as a mom is heartbreaking because it makes u feel useless.
when i was a teenager, i was the same. just like that. gone off with strange older and dangerous men. strung out and so far gone. i kills me what i put my parents through. now. then, i felt nothing, i was on a mission. until the mission was over no thought would be given to anything or anyone else. it's like a raging river.
if you can lay your hands on your daughter, do whatever you have to do to get her into a longterm rehabilitation facility. lie if that's what it takes. she is so young. i will be praying for you, hard. remember that the things she may say are just the product of the disease of addiction. don't take anything to heart if you can help it. this may help later on when and if you come out on the other side of this thing.
i lost my mom before i could make any kind of amends for all that i had put her through. please let us know what is going on with this. i am taking this one personally. all my prayers, sway
long-term (4 months) in-patient rehab, saved my life. i had been in a 28 day in-patient program before that, but i relapsed almost immediately upon getting out.
i would do everything possible to keep the settlement money from her. things may be bad now, but they will be worse if she can suddenly use as much as she wants, for as long as she wants. in active-addiction, we addicts can't find the off switch,
petition the court and have her declared incompetent, use that money for rehab.
i'm praying for you and your daughter.
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Hi,
I am sorry your post was not answered, it is very early in the morning for most here.
My heart is breaking reading your words and I can feel your pain. I know it is hard when you can't help your child.
It seems you have, or are doing every thing humanly possible to find her and help her. As hard as this is to hear it may be best that she get brought in on the warrant and be put behind bars. Once she gets physically clean for a few days she has choices. While she is actively using (now) the drug is making all of her choices for her.
Star, she needs professional help as you know and even if you did find her you cannot help her alone. She will probably run again. She needs long-term treatment.
You and your family are in my prayers. Please keep talking with the members here, it does help and be sure to take care of yourself during this time.