What do i do?

[toshiba137]

What do i do, i know my husband is addicted to vicodin and admitted it to me once in ten years 5 months ago and i messed up by enabling and helping get them cause he was in pain.  Now he moved out again and said its all cause i yell and I always find myself begging him come back and taking all the blame.  How do i get him to see its the pills are the problem and save my marriage and family?

[jstntime]

Stop enabling, stop yelling and pray your husband comes to the realization that it's time to stop, without which he is lost.

[jp2001]

Well, that is a tough one.  You definitely can empower him and support him, being non-judgemental and understanding.  However, there is nothing YOU yourself can do to get him off the pain meds, it truly is something he will need to do on his own accord.