whyandwhat

[Leah007]

what gives up the right to hurt me and your family?with no remorse .I give my all.I love you and depive you of nothing.And with one look from you ,when your high my heart shatters.I look at our son ,and thank God he's baby.I wont show ,how i feel in front of him, because it would scare him.Our son ,I promised, I would be mother who would put God first and him second                         .From the time ,I can remember,my mother smoked crack .()I was five years old.) I had a fock up childhood.I grew up in a crack house .with people coming in and out.When I was fourteen I got job. .16 I had my place.I crimb the ladder at work and became the youngest person in the  company history to up attain a position in mangement. While attending high School.Two years later  graduated .After ,I relocated, and met a wonderful man.By time ,I realized he had a problem that was serious I was in love.And here I am

[road2recovery]

it is worth a shot for him to come here.....I am also sorry for what you are going through...As addicts we hurt many that love us..It really is not us, it is the drug, but it still is not excuse..I know you know he has to want to quit on his own...
But if he doesn't come here, u come, and hope we can help u...
sorry for your pain..
god bless
r2r

[10356]

I'm so sorry that yiu are going thru this I can feel your hurt and anger. I really have know advice but to let you know we are here for you if you need to talk or just to vent. I hope this is just a very temporary thing and that it will get better for you and your child, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Limbo

[confused456]

He can be totally anonymous here. He can talk freely and get a lot of support and so can you.

[Leah007]

Maybe ,I think he would because he wouldnt give a face.

[Leah007]

I know how I feel. I know the boundaries,limitions ,I must set .It does make easy

[confused456]

Would he be willing to come here? There are many here that are so helpful and supportive and it makes it a lot easier?

[Leah007]

drug of choice or not Crack

[confused456]

Yes they are and they have ala non for spouses and partners.

[Leah007]

he was ben in rehad before.Something like four times.I seen him threw it all.I use to smoke pot and when found out it could hurt  him I stopped and went to aa na  .He knows his options.He relapse today.and came home right after.

[Dieing2Live]

you should look into some NA/AA meetings many here swear by them and i could be wrong but im almost positive they are free

[confused456]

This is a very sad story. Does your husband or partner want to get help? What is he on? How can we help you?