Is that effect because of cocaine

[domino82]

hello:)
I am seeing wired effect on my boyfriend and i want to know if these are the powder cocaine effect.
I met him from few months and our relation was so closed.
One day we were in a club, so he was dancing and suddenly he went to the bathroom and he came back after 15 minutes with a good mood and he start to put ice on his noise. after a while his hand and his leg from one side start to shake.

Another day, we were having sex and he had the shaking for his hand and leg, so i asked him if i can help him so he refused and he told me he has the medicine and he asked me to leave the bedroom for 5 minutes. so i left and after that i saw him that he is much better.

Many times, i realized that he goes to his bedroom when having a party with friends in his place and he comes back with a nice mood. But one day, when I saw a white powder on his nose when he was coming from his bedroom.

I feel that he has an addiction to cocaine.
But i don't understand why his hand and leg shake from one side. is that because of cocaine or he has another sickness

[Punkinhead75]

Now is probably the perfect time to ask if he is using or wants to quit.  Living with an active drug addict isn't always easy and you have the right to know before you get to involved.  My wife told me about her speed habit when we first started going out.  I decided to stay and developed quite a speed habit myself,  along with a few other substances.  Whatever your feelings are for him youhave to decide if you are ok living with an addict.  Fortunately my wife and I are both clean and sober today.  The 17yrs in between were rocky at best.  Learn what you can about addicts.  It may give you some insight about what you may end up dealing with.  Once I got hooked I didn't care about anything other than where my next "fix" was coming from.  My relationships all became second to my addiction.  I'm not trying to scare you I'm just being honest with my own experience.  God Bless!!!

[domino82]

actually i can't ask him now if he want to quit or no because our relation is new.
But i hope he will
thanks i lot for your advice:)

[shiningstar500]

The only thing I can say is that when I did it back about 10 years ago, I experienced weird symptoms because I had so much energy. I remember my head would move back and forth, couldnt sit still. I don't know if the shaking would be related to it but you do have a lot of energy with cocaine. You could google the symptions to see if that is one of them. Has he admitted to this and does he want to quit? I hope it all works out for you and there are several people on the forum that have been addicted to cocaine so they would be able to help you more than I can.