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[hippiemommy4321]

Before I found out I was pregnant I went to clubs every weekend and always rolled Molly the last couple times I went I got into some harder things but stopping them didn't bother me. Its been almost a month since I have smoked weed or rolled Molly and it is driving me crazy I get really depressed when I think about not doing it and can't get rid of this headache. I know I have to grow up and be a mommy now but its so hard when I feel this way. The father is the same way but he doesn't admit to me that he is having a hard time with not having the drugs how do I help he and myself get over wanting that life back?

[hippiemommy4321]

The x is the only thing I formed an addiction to and im so happy it was the only I had started acid but never formed addiction. I hadn't been doing any of it long but I'm very easy to for addictions. My bf had been doing all of this for over a year but he felt with stopping better than I did how is that even possible??? I'm excited to be a mommy I never thought I could get pregnant so the fact that I did threw me and my bf into reality :) very nice wake up call. Just ***** that the first trimester is feeling like a constant come down from mdma always tired sore and feeling sick. It reminds me constantly of what I can't do anymore. Thanks for the advise guys!!

[hippiemommy4321]

I'm going to do my best to get into classes and be honest with my doctor. We only go around friends who don't do any of that now :) we have started going and seeing movies and actually went on a hike Tuesday I enjoyed it a lot. After the baby is what I am worried about the most. I'm going to try to get him into classes with me I'm not sure if he will go though

[weaver71]

MDMA is an amphetamine, they call it a halucinogen, but is chemically an amphetamine. The A at the end is "Amphetamine." You have blown out your adrenal glands. It tikes time for them to recover. It's hard to get excited or have energy after regular use. Try to support your adrenals with food and herbs. Drink lots of water, and like nursegirl said, you are dealing with an addiction. Stopping drugs is not enough, you have to work on growing as a person and family member.Keep in mind, X dissolves your bone marrow also, you may want to take calcium and go out in the sun as much as you can. It will be worth it. I wish I had gotten clean when my kids where still babies. You have much to look forward to. Keep up the good fight.

[nursegirl6572]

Well, you're dealing with an addiction it sounds like.  Those thoughts and depressive feelings would be cravings.

I would highly recommend that both you and your BF get into some addiction counseling, and even NA/AA meetings.  You need to address the addiction and put a plan in place so you don't relapse once the baby comes.

You've done a great job doing the right thing for your baby, but this is going to require more than just quitting.  I would also recommend being honest with your doctor about this...he/she can help as well, maybe even refer you to an appropriate therapist.

You can still have a social life as a Mom, but you have to learn how to have fun without drugs.  Find some new friends that are also Moms.  You can do all kinds of things besides partying....dinner, movies, hikes, weekend trips away.  You don't have to stop having a social life, but the partying has to stop.  

Best of luck to you...congrats on the baby!