So glad to read that you will stay away from them...for now. It's just for now. One day at a time. You can't help them right now. I repeat, you can't help them right now. They're on their own journeys.
I cannot even tell you how much Alanon helped me when I was in a relationship w/ an alcoholic a few years back. It totally changed my perspective. I would have been insane w/o it. So glad you are going to go.
Hi, and welcome. Your dad didn't take a bunch of pills to "get back" at your mother. He did it because he's an addict, too. When an addict or alcoholic doesn't get help, this is what happens. I'm so sorry your parents are deep in their addictions. Nothing you say will change anything. Maybe, just maybe, something you do will and that is to stay away from both of them and take care of yourself. Like Dominosarah wrote, please go to Alanon meetings, they are made for your exact problem. You can't change anyone but yourself. Alanon will help you feel sane and learn new tools to deal w/ this. I'm glad you have your Grandmother. Your parents are toxic. Stay away from them and get some support.
Hi and welcome to the forum. Please talk with your grandma about this. You are too young to be handling all of this on your own. Do you have someone close you can talk with? Please dont harm yourself. Your parents need help but they will only get it when they are ready. There are alanon meetings everywhere and the people that go to those meetings have been where you are at. You would find some really nice and helpful people there and you wouldnt feel so alone. They will have some really good advice on how to deal with your parents. You dont deserve to be living like this. Hopefully your parents will get the help they need but in the meantime please check into alanon. Keep talking with us~
I am so glad you responded back to us. We are always around so keep talking with us. We understand the pain you are feeling and hopefully we can make you feel better about yourself. Let us know how the meetings are going. How is the therapist appts going?