I agree with IBKleen you do know the answer.You probly just dont want to see it or accept it. try to confront her and see if she is willing to get some help. i didnt even know you could smoke them
Hi & Welcome,
I am not sure you need to look for anything else, you already know the answer. Still, if you see her getting "the flu" over again, that is another indication. The running around 800 miles an hour is all I needed to hear, and the fact that she already has a problem.
When you say you moved, did you move with your wife or are you now on your own?