27 Male. Anxiety sufferer. But learning that most of my anxiety starts from Health Anxiety... which is "hypochodria"? Heck I dunno, I hate labeling myself. lol.
Here's my problem. About 2 weeks ago or more, I developed a very tight throat associated with throat clearing sinus drainage. At this point I was not worried about my tight throat, except the fact that I didn't like it.
A few days later, my throat got sore... but not like a sore throat, it was just the lining on the left side of my mouth near my tonsils/upper palate. Also when I swallowed I felt something like a popcorn kernel or something near my left tonsil. (thought it was a tonsil stone, but couldnt see it) also my lymph node or something was sore under my left earlobe.
Anyways, my sore throat left, but I still kept swallowing to see if I could feel the "popcorn kernel" feeling in my throat. Which i still could at times, but my throat didnt hurt.
At this point my anxiety started to rise b/c I got the irrational thought of "could this be throat cancer?" Even though I knew the chances of me having throat cancer were slim to nothing... the thought crossed my anxious brain ONE TIME and that's all it took. The anxiety was on.
I went to the Dr. just to get peace of mind. My Dr. is great by the way, he knows everything about my anxiety etc.
I basically told him why I was there needing peace of mind from the "c" word. He looked around said I probably just had some sinus issues or a cold and had a sore throat, but as of now, he said my throat looked GREAT. He said "No signs of cancer!"
Of course my mind was relieved... then the following day I could still feel the popcorn kernel feeling.. and my ANXIETY MIND STARTED THINKING "What if the Dr. missed something?" So the anxiety came back... and on top of that my gag reflex became very sensitive... breathing in certain ways would make my top palate feel weird and make have the feeling of wanting to gag! It stunk!
Well, then the popcorn kernel feeling when I swallowed left! It totally went away... But I was still constantly catching myself swallowing, and swallowing to see if it was still there... my anxiety was so bad I just cried and cried it all out one day saying "Lord, please just take all this worry and fear away, and help me quit obsessing about my throat!" As tears poured I felt better and that weekend was great! I also took a zyrtec to see if that helped, and I think it did.
My weekend went great my appetite came back and anxiety left! (b/c I lose appetite during anxiety spells)
Well, that following monday, I was eating lunch at work, and I noticed my chest hurt when I swallowed my food.
I could feel the food going down my esophegus more than usual and slower, and once it hit my chest area, i had a discomfort in my chest area.
"GREAT!!! Just Great!" I thought... something else to worry about... luckily instead of going back to the Dr. b/c I just saw him the week before, my wife had a check up with him the next day, so I had her ask him what that was I was feeling that day. He said it was probably acid reflux, and for me to take ant-acids.
The next day this feeling went away.. amen! But anxiety spiked again! Plus I started having a wisdom tooth that Ive had in for a while coming up some more, and it was making my gums really sore, and my lymph node kind of sore. It stunk!! And anxiety was getting worse.
After a few days, my wisdom tooth started feeling much better. But my anxiety wasnt.
I kept thinking about my throat still... b/c NOW, my throat and my mouth feel SO DRY, and it's SO DRY when I breath in through my nose or something it seems like the back of my throat tenses up so much, and my uvual feels dry and when it touches my throat or something, I feel like gagging..
And it seems NO MATTER HOW MUCH I DRINK, IT WONT STAY VERY MOIST. And now when I swallow with a dry mouth and throat, my throat muscles are tensed up and feels like bones or air popping when I swallow. It just stinks!
I'm a big soda drinker,. and I havnt drank any soda in the past few days b/c my mouth is SO dry when I drink soda now the fizz just irritates my upper palate of my mouth near my uvula area. It just stinks! I LOVE SODA! But I guess cutting out soda isnt a bad thing. haha.
Well, what I've done to myself over the past 3 weeks has caused me to OBSESS ABOUT MY THROAT NOW, I CAN'T STOP SWALLOWING AND THINKING ABOUT EACH TIME I SWALLOW
EVERYTIME I SWALLOW I THINK "Is it really dry? did that hurt? what was that feeling? Why is my uvula so dry feeling? Why do I feel like gagging sometimes?"
I've become SO OBSESSED with THINKING about my throat, that my anxiety is SOARING too...
I just feel TRAPPED IN MY MIND! I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT MY THROAT!
And what's funny, is that I'm thinking so much about it, that my throat probably feels like this most of the time, and
I just used to think nothing of it! Now I can't stop thinking about every feeling when I swallow.
My anxiety was SO bad last night, my legs were trembling, I felt bad bad butterflies in my stomach, I was pacing...
I felt SO TERRIBLE... I take ativan to help me through these phases of anxiety, and I always make it though all anxiety spells and depression spells... but I just feel SO STUCK in this one. I usually take 1 ativan during the day if my anxiety is bad, and it helps get me by.. but lastnight my brother told me to take 2 before bed, and it helped GREATLY! You see, I'm also building a little tolerance to my ativan, b/c its the smallest dose. It's .5mg per pill. And they just don't chill me out like they used too.
Tonight I'm not feeling too bad, this morning was kind of bad, was very anxious, couldnt sit down... kept thinking about my throat so much... and my throat doesnt even hurt! It's just dry dry mouth and dry throat kinda. It's not a dry and itchy and scratchy throat like you'd get in the winter from it being dry.
So my question is to you guys. I know anxiety is the WORST of all of this. And I have to know nothing is wrong with my throat. The Dr. just looked at my throat last week!
So my question is, is this anxiety at it's best?
Is it possible for me to quit thinking about my throat, and every sensation?
I just feel stuck in my mind! I wanna get out of this funk!
What stinks too is my Dr. is out of the country for 2 months! But he said he's got other colleagues there for me if I need em. I just hate going to the Dr. all the time over nothing!
I've been on an SSRI before but I want to just knock this stuff out without SSRI's. I don't mind taking a little chill pill here and there to get me through minor funks, but this funk is pretty bad!
Do you think I'll get over this?
What are your suggestions? My anxiety is still pretty bad, but not too bad tonight, my appetite is gone, I get butterflies in my stomach, and keep thinking about my throat still. It's mostly my top upper palate and near my uvula that feels the most dry! and my throat get's tight sometimes.
Thanks guys so much! Just help me calm down over this stupid-ness.. I want my life back like I had it 3 weeks ago!
I can't believe all of this started with just a minor sore throat...
I'm gonna go take some ativan and a shower and just try and relax. I notice my mouth and stuff isnt as dry when I wake up in the morning, but once I start thinking about it, it seems like it happens.
Is this all anxiety symptoms only?