Thank You so much for all the help C:
xx Wish you well with you life
Oh no, that sounds like a very difficult situation.
You seem to have it all planned out well though - you have a very wise head on your young shoulders.
Good luck....xx
It's really hard though I live in a really small town where everyone knows everyone my mum being a nurse works will alot of doctors and Always is telling me stuff like "shes having sex" "shes pregnant" and being disguisted. I know its confidential but shes friends with all the doctors.. I really don't want her finding out. I will be sixteen in 20 days this making me legal.. We and my boyfriend decided that once I'm sixteen I will go and get the injection or some form of contraception where I dont have to worry. But will still use the condom as well. But until then we are trying to be super safe. I am a twin but my sister and I do not really get on well. She tells my mum everything I once told her abit and she went running to mum, making it hard to ever trust her. I dont really have anyone close to talk to. Thank you for the Advice I really Appreciate it.
Just any advice to Parents out there is yelling at your child and telling them no will not make them stop or change there mind. The best thing to do is to support and educate them. I know for sure when I decide to have children that I will make sure my kids can come to me and talk to me about anything no matter what, with out me abusive.
I really think you should go to a doctor too - you say its tricky, but you must remember that anything you say to your doctor is confidential so there will be no way your parents will find out. You also need to remember that no contraceptive is 100% reliable - I think its fantastic that you are having safe sex, but you need to be aware that there are still risks.
Do you have nobody else you can talk to? You said your sister had a teenage pregnancy - can you talk to her in confidence? What about your boyfriends mom/sister? If not, you could always go to a sexual health clinic where you'll be able to have a chat with someone, get a free pregnancy test and even free condoms. Do some research on the internet to find out where the closest one to you is, and carry on using forums such as these as they are a great place to get advice.
I really hope things work out for you and you stay safe - good luck honey!
That's a shame that you can't talk to your mom. We'd rather our kids not have sex this young, but have to realize that they probably will, and I'd rather they learn things from me than on the street. Do a pregnancy test to be on the safe side and if you're not pregnant, see your doctor for a check-up. With your periods being all over the board, there may be something else going on.
Me and boyfriend are having sex. But we are both VERY careful. At the moment we are only using a condom. But we make sure its on and not broken etc and that he doesnt *** inside of me. Lately I havent been sleeping or eating right. And the past couple months my period dates have been all over the place. I can't really talk to my doctor is very tricky. My mum is a nurse and would kill me if she knew I was having sex. My boyfriends parents are very support and help us out, giving me the ECP when need once before. I find it really hard talking to my mum about sex and everything. My dad left when I was little and my older sister now im her 30's got pregant when she was 16.. I once asked my mum If it was ok with her If I had sex and if we could talk about contraception but she freaked out then not allowing me to See my boyfriend. I haven't ever been able to talk about anything with my mum like my first bra and Period.
You should talk to your doctor about this, since you have seizures. Is there any chance you're pregnant?
Thank you for the Reply, Me and my boy friend have been together for nearly a Year and a half I'm completely comfortable around him. Thinking about it... We woke up at 11 and hadn't had breakfast much of a breakfast. My breast are very sore at the moment could that have anything to do with it also?
It could be a number of things - were you nervous about taking a shower with your boyfriend? If so, it could have caused you to have this anxiety attack.
It could even come down to you just being hungry - I have had spells like this when I am really stressed out and not eating properly.
Let me know - I hope things are okay with you.