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So I have been on and off meds for anxiety. I have tried Lexapro and Celexia and while they worked good I had a sexual side effect that I hated (as well as wife). Recently tried Welbutrion and no side effect but didn't do much for my anxiety. Thought that it was at first but not so much anymore (been on it for 2 months). Been reading a lot about Buspirone and it seems like it really works well for some people and does not have the side effect that I dread. But not certain if I want to gamble on another medication with no guarantee of it working. Seeing my Dr in about 2hrs.

Any suggestions/advice? Anyway to counter act the side effect I have (very difficult to orgasm)?

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Well to update, going to start taking Buspar. Hope this works as good as I am advised.
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All anti-anxiety and anti-depressants that I know of will cause sexual side effects ie. low libido, lack of abilty to 'perform', etc.  I have taken several different ones over the years, and still take them.  I have actually chosen to tolerate the low libido in exchange for not feeling miserable all day every day.  I am also married, 17 years now, and we are happy.  We have had to make adjustments in our sex life to accomodate my low drive.  The details of this won't help you, since I am a woman.  But perhaps there are ways you, too, can make adjustments?  Maybe add some toys, porn, lotions, and oils.  The right environment helps too, for both sexes.  You want privacy of course, low lighting, some background music that is pleasing to you both, and a candle that smells like fruit (food smells are good for getting a man in the mood).  You can have intimacy without even having sex if you choose.  Think about it, and let me know how things go.  Blessings - Blu
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Thanks for the reply, if I have to go back on lexapro then all wife and I can do is limit how much we have sex because I can go a long time without having an orgasm. Wife gets frustrated and sore...so not something I really want to do. So going to give Buspar a chance and see how that works and hopefully will not have to go back on old medication and deal with side effects.
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I think you're misusing the Wellbutrin, which is why it isn't working for you.  It's a very stimulating antidepressant, but not much good for anxiety -- it often increases it because it's stimulating.  Good if depression is your primary problem, but not if anxiety is the primary problem.  However, when you're on an ssri and you have weight gain or sexual side effects, Wellbutrin is often added to the ssri to counter those side effects.  So that's an option you haven't tried.  Are you in therapy so you can learn if you can handle this eventually without medication?
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Oh, forgot to add, I hope Buspar works for you but it has failed every research study it's been used in.  It's an old drug, easy to take, that's been looking for a market forever since it hasn't proved to work.  I believe the only thing it's felt by researchers to be useful for is in augmentation of an antidepressant, so since you're on wellbutrin maybe the combination will help you.  
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Thanks for the info. Well from some research I wanted to try Welbutrion because people have said it was worked to help anxiety (depression is not an issue for me), and my Dr was ok with trying it out to see if it would work.

As for Buspar from a lot of online research many people have had it work for anxiety, as it is just an anxiety medication and not depression. I read hundreds of good reviews on it, so research may say something but I also take weight in what actual people have to say. Spoke with my Dr about it and she agreed that it was worth a shot, and she has had many people who have done well with it. She said she has found people who have been on things like Paxil and Zoloft tend not to see the effects of the Buspar. But people who have been on lexapro and celexia and other things like that tend to do well with it. So I am hopeful that this will work.

But you think that if I have to go back on lexapro that maybe try it with Welbutrion to help the sexual side effect?
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