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chemical imbalence

A person in my family blames her husband for breaking things around the house, but he doesent do it...(ex: she blamed him for switching around the fan blades, when, they were never even switched)....she says her husband wants to kill her, but noone sees him doing this...
could this be a chemical imbalence?
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I agree w/ shelzmike in that the person is displaying symptoms which "might" be consistent with schizophrenia (or paranoia).  Of course many other things could be causing this but in any case, she should be evaluated by a medical doctor and a psychiatrist as many of the conditions she may have are very treatable.
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I suggest you actually join this forum so we can communicate with you more freely about this situation. At the end of this response you'll see some material on what to do.

Chemical imbalance? OK, suppose it is. So what? Where do we with that?

In a larger sense, there are no chemical imbalances, there are simply the outcomes of chemical interactions. If we don't like those outcomes, regard them as inappropriate or think they are harmful, we then say it is an "imbalance." Check my journals and you'll fins some material I've prepared on the chemical imbalance question.

One thing we know for sure - no matter WHAT we feel or do or think or say, it is ALL about the chemistry. But that doesn't mean we are necessarily very skilled at adjusting the chemistry, because those chemicals are made up in our brains and bodies, and we're only just beginning to understand how it all works -which is my medication has such a variety of results. The best chemist is the brain itself, so anything we can do to get the brain to pump out the right juices is a good thing. This can be accomplished to an extent with drugs -but also, and usually to great effect, with therapy -depending on the individual.

Which brings us back to your situation. Someone needs to assess what's going on here. If you've been appointed to wear the detective's hat for this, get a consult with a mental health professional. You may find the mental health section of your local health department to be a good start. But don't waste your time taking a poll of folks here on whether it is chemical or not. Either your family member IS at risk of her husband's action, or at risk of an unhealthy mental condition and serious delusions. EITHER WAY, if you are a caring family member want to help, then get in the company of people who can help you.

What we can do is help you develop a context, a framework of understanding -and a place to safely spill your gut. You'll get lots of support. OK, following is how to join. After you do it, please let us know what happens with your family member.


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299912 tn?1341623100
The term "chemical imbalance" is not one that is as "specific" as people think. In fact, many normal people have chemical imbalances every day. In fact, when one's emotions overwhelms them to the point of saddness or anger - this is an (albeit temporary) example of chemical imbalance.

Now, onto this issue. Let me first preface this by saying that I AM NOT a doctor. However, this sounds to me like a possible classic case of schizophrenia (barring that alcohol or drug use is not an involved party here).

The thing that absolutely needs to happen is that she needs to see 1st, a med doctor, and 2nd, a psychaitrist. The hard part is convincing her to do so. She needs to be talked to by someone that she trusts - a sibling, parent, child, good friend etc. Point these things out without being judgmental at all. Furthermore, that person would also want to possibly visit the doctor with her, for she may not even realize these things that she is doing.

Mike
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