He will be 25 in April.and what I don't understand is he wanted this baby. I on the other hand did not.. I was not ready. He would try to get me pregnant. And I knew he was so I would not give him sex and when I did. I told him he had to pull out. He never liked wearing condoms. He wanted this baby. And then when I got pregnant. He started keeping his distance. And going out drinking and smoking weed. And then that's when we really started fighting Cuz I felt no support from him. And then I found out from Facebook that he cheated on me. And the second time was from Facebook too! Ugh! But this was not a planned pregnancy. But he did want me pregnant.
First off. how old is he? He seems really immature and no where near ready to take on the responsibility to raise a child. Young men do this a lot because they are afraid they won't have a life after the baby, which is no excuse but it's most likely the reason. He probably has other things he wants to do with his life before he decides to take responsibility, which most likely means that you shouldn't expect support from him. Find a better guy in the meantime or better yet just try to depend more on your family and friends. My friend went through this with her fiance.