Hello, well we aren't physicians here so we don't diagnosis, just a community of others that suffer too. Can you go to the Doctor? This isn't going to go away on its own, evidently?? I thought of Shingles? I always get a Shingles vaccine when I get my flu shot and pneumonia shot. :P
Pain and the frequent urination are all red flags. It can probably be easily treated by a doctor. Your kind of young for this if your 34, but please try to get in asap. It will only get more and more uncomfortable for you, we don't want that. Good luck to you and let us know how you are doing.