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why might my boyfriend not want to sleep with me anymore?

My boyfriend doest want to sleep with anymore! One night we went out I drank too much and got pretty drunk. I'm embarrassed I don't recall anything! he says I behaved like **** and was beyond flirtation. It has been 6 months since it happened and during the last month we have stop having sex. Anytime I ask him he becomes upset and ignores me and falls a sleep. What should I do? Still in a relationship and not having sex.. is this healthy?  does being bipolar have anything to do with it?
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It isn't healthy but it happens sometimes. If it was six months ago and only now your BF doesn't want to have sex, maybe that isn't 'it'. Maybe there is something else bothering him. You need to, at a very mellow time and in a non judgemental way ask why. Something like "I've noticed that you don't feel like sex lately, and that makes me worried, is there anything you'd like to talk about" And don't rule out he may have a touch of depression. Often moody peeps end up with moody peeps. Not always but it is common.
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My husband and I don't even sleep in the same room so I understand.. As iunderatans bi polar can make us do things sexually that normally we would never do. Combined meds and alcohol you were probably leas inhibited. I don't know your friend but maybe if he did some reading or even talk with you and your dr he could understand that sometimes you aren't yourself. I don't understand my problem. So I'm no one to give advice but why not discuss it with your dr. Rejection hurts and Lord knows we already have too much pain. Gail
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I can relate to this, im not with my fiance anymore. He went from lovey dovey then suddenly he pushed me away. Although i broke it off with him he seemed to believe he ended it but he wanted NOTHING to do with me. Ive spent all day researching trying to come up with answers. Perhaps this with your relationship will go away.. I hope so for you, bc im kindve confused for me.
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