My nine year old is the middle child of an older sister (15) and a younger brother (8). She was abused by her baby sitter at the age of four months, and her father has been in and out of her life. He got involved with her life on a more frequent basis from 2009-2011, but the day after Thanksgiving their father left town, and has not seen them sense.
HELP, HOW DO I GET MY 9 YEAR OLD TO TALK TO A THEREAPIST? SHE HAS MAJOR ANGER ISSUES, AND MOOD SWINGS, THAT ARE DESTROYING my life, and her brother and sisters!!!
I cant take this anymore, and I have been dealing with it for as long as I can remember. On her first day of Kindergarten, she wouldn't get out of the car. Literally, would not go!!!! I had the principles assistant at the car, and finally they agreed for her to try again the next day…….
I problem is that she is very angry!!! Violent at times, punches, kicks, throws things, and appears mad at the world. She says she hates her little brother and that he is the reason she is so mad. I cant leave her for five minutes, but then when I take her to store or something with me, she throws a fit because it is to hot, she cant buy something, ECT. Tonight, I kept asking her to stop kicking her brother, an d then she kicked him across the room, the whole time while I am trying to fix the tv., as she is telling me I cant fix it, and I am stupid, ECT. Then after I punish her, she spits all over my bed and her brothers.?? She mocks me, and is just down right disrespectful!!!! H
eLP , does anyone have any ideas as to what is wrong, my other two do not act this way.
How do I get a child to talk to a therapist, if she will not talk to me or anyone else???