am i?

[jawzlyn]

Hi i would like to be put on the pill. but sadly my mom thinks it is a really bad idea. but to me i think it's safer. and so i guess my question is if i have to have my parents consent to get put on the pill?

[jawzlyn]

i do trust him i trust him a lot. which is weird because i don't trust a lot of people and have never trusted a boyfriend before. the pull out method doesn't work with him since he got one of his ex's pregnant his junior year. and she was a total bit#$ and got an abotrion 6 months into the baby all because my boyfriend and her brother didn't get along. and he is affraid iam going to do that. my mom will just make me break up with tom. and wont let me go anywhere there is no adults.

[jawzlyn]

well thanks i know to stick with condoms, i don't have unprotected sex at all. it is gross and an easy to get a disease or get babies. all though i do want a kid now but my boyfriend has said no just wait until i at least graduate he is not wanting to mess up my future. well he has had sex once and that was the pull out method which didn't work. she got pregnant and then got an abortion 6 months into the pregnancy.

[cellen402]

I would just stick with condoms if I were you.  I wonder sometimes if getting on the pill is worth the health factors that could potentially come with it.  I've been on the pill for almost two years and I find that it makes it easier to think that it is okay to have sex without a condom since I can't get pregnant, but it does not protect you against STDs.  A lot of guys who say they have been tested haven't and say that they are clean just because previous partners have said that they were clean.  I've had it happen firsthand.  Just be careful.. it is hard to remember all this in the heat of the moment.  :)

[MaryG123]

JUST TELL HER TO HAVE THE BIRDS AND THE BEES TALK WITH YOU!!!

[MaryG123]

YEA, IF YOU REALLY TRUST HIM GO HEAD, BUT PPL COULD LIE!!! AND YEAH, JUST TALK TO HER, TELL HER YOUR BECOMING AN 17 YR OLD, AND YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE ON A METHOD EITHER THE SHOT OR PILLS! TELL HER YOU DONT WANT ANY KIDS AND SHE SHOULDNT WANT ANY GRANDS! LOL & IF SHE STILL DNT, JUST TELL YOUR PARTNER TO PULL OUT WAY BEFORE HE NUT, AND BEAT HIS MEAT AND NUT EITHER ON YOU OR NO SUMTHING ELSE, BUT NOT IN YOU!!!

[jawzlyn]

how do i tell her that i am though? and no I'm not i am turning 17 in January so i am not to young to have sex. i know better to use condoms and things like that, if there is no condoms then we cont have sex. i have told him that a lot of times. he is clean and so am i so i cant get a disease.... RIGHT?