Hi and welcome!!! Elisa & Selma have given you the best advice...rest .rest. Rest !!!! I had my decompression 2 yrs to the day from your on oct. 26,2012 they sent me home after 3 day, I was on the Hyrdocondone,around the clock for 2 weeks especially the first week my husband even put an alarm clock on over night to stay on top of the meds..by the second week we start to extend the time from every 4 hrs to 6 but I did spend most the time in bed...sleeping will help you heal faster..it took me 3 weeks to actually be able to get up on my feet and resume some what of a normal life...I am not saying this to discourage you but just to let you know that ..it takes a little time but it will get better :) please take you time it will get better
Hi and welcome to the Chiari forum,
I have to Ditto your surgery was just a week ago....and for you to be upset that this recovery is a long one.,...hang on tight as you have just begun.....healing can take a long time in fact the nerves will continue to heal over the next 2 yrs....
What you do during your recovery may affect it.,,so do not rush to get back to your "normal" life....I understand you have a child, but she is old enuff to understand you are in pain and it will take time....the longer you allow yourself to heal the better it will go for you.
Not all pain meds work for all of us and you may find that the meds are part of the issues you are having....take stool softeners as the drugs and meds used for surgery will block us up....and you do not want to strain post op.
Make sure ALL related conditions were ruled out so they are not what is causing you issues...
It is possible to have other issues crop up or become noticeable post op...just take your time, rest, rest and rest some more.
Your surgery was just days ago, actually a week. Your recovery will respond to your life style. Being a mother is pretty demanding when you are ill. I am like you in that way. Most of the symptoms you had before your surgery will lessen; however, your recovery really depends on rest to let your incision heal. I hope you have help with some of the physical things you must do. Be very careful not to strain yourself in any way. I am sending good wishes to you right now. and letting you know that you are not alone. This forum is a very supportive and encouraging place to be.