Please HELP

[nikkis113113]

my four year old son lately has been trying to feel my breasts as well when laying in bed relaxing with him at bed time, trying to put hos hands down my pants at my butt or sometimes at front, he started with his teachers at school first rubbing there bums, or trying to stick hands downthe backside pants, now hes been doing it too me and my mom and his nana?? is this normal?? four year old behaviour?? i understand he curious, but ive told him thats my private areas and to stay away, and hell still try and rub me ? please help me?? im getting really upset and confused

[ambrettagold]

Hi my 3 year old grandson is doing the same so maybe it is just normal exploring, but I have been concerned it is due aswell to him watching too much dance channels on the tv where the women are so sexually suggestive and gyrating that it is affecting him, as it has been worse since he started wanting to watch these channels.  I must admit I am also concerned about abuse and we are watching him for signs of abuse also, but I am not sure on that.  hope this helps.  Try to sensor his telly and see if he improves.

[nikkis113113]

would it have hapened at school then? these behaviours started with teachers and then now its become use, and hes only doing it to older adults( woman)

[MarkLakewood3367]

This could be simple exploratory behavior.  However, since this behavior is occurring with multiple people and discipline isn't curbing the behavior, it might be appropriate to have your son evaluated by a mental health professional as this could be a sign that he was sexually violated.