I hope you can help. I am recently divorced and have 2 teenage daughters. My girlfriend is also divorced and has 2 sons, ages 11 and 6.
I am having issues with the 6 year old. He constantly wants his mother to do pretty much everything for him, most of which I don't have a problem with. One thing that he does want is his mother to wipe him after he goes to the bathroom. He is potty trained, and has no issues with this outside the home.
Second (and this is the big one)...he is always coming into our bedroom in the middle of the night and wants to crawl into bed with us. I raised my girls so that if they came into our room to sleep
(normally during a thunderstorm) they would get in bed, but then we would take them back to their own bed once they were asleep, or we would go back to their room with them stay with them until they were asleep. This lasted until they were about 4 years old, then they stayed in their room.
This is an every night occurrance with her 6 year old. He doesn't sleep between us, but on her side of the bed. These occurrances cause me to have broken sleep. She doesn't see anything wrong with it, but says "He's just 6". I find it frustrating, because our bed is "our bed". I've talked to her about this and told her to just take him back to his bed, but she won't. Sometimes she sleeps in the nude, and he crawls into bed alongside her.
HELP!!! WHAT AM I TO DO???