We have had my 3 step daughters living with us for all most 3 years now. 2 are twins, 12 and Christine is now 10. They were taken away from their mother because she was in and out of mental hospitals and lived with a very abusive husband. They both took ilegal drugs and drank heavy. THey would leave the girls with her mother alot. Anyway, since we have had them the youngest has told many horrible lies about me and has threatened to kill myself, my son who is 3 and her sisters twice, she stands up in the classroom and yells at her teacher. She has no friends and she really has never bonded with anyone here or in her mother's home. Now. about a year ago her older sisterhas started acting just like her. THey are both head strong on doing only what they want to do and will litterly explode if you ask them to do what they dont want to do. They used to make themselves throw up until about a year ago . Theystill bend their fingers in all sorts of weird ways so, their knuckles are swollen and they cant use their hands very well. We have themin counseling currently but, she cant give us anything accept seperation anxiety dissorder because, their mother hasnt had anything to do with them since they were given to us. But,she really never bonded with them so, I guess I dont understand that. They all said about a month ago they were molested by their Mom and Step Dad but, kept taking it back so, I dont know. The therapist dosnt think anything happened after talking to the girls. I dont really understand when we spend special time with them why they seem to act worse after that and they are constantly in comatition for all attention and they will do anything to get it. Thank You For Your Time..
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