I am curious on your age? Six year olds can be a handful without behavioral problems lol. You sound like you are a very caring person to take on the things that others have looked past. I appreciate you looking out for the little guy, at the same time wondering if you are still in school yourself and hope you have the support you need also?
Children thrive on structure, this 6 year old is like all others. He needs just that. He need love, support, a routine and yes cook for him. He needs you and those around him to be united in his raising and to know that you are all looking out for him and his best interest. Start his day the same every day and end it the same every night, and fill it with love and support in between. Be firm and consistent with discipline, encouraging good behavior and letting him know what is not acceptable. A six year old can do chores to earn certain privileges and when he misbehaves those privileges can be taken away. Consistency is key though. With my husband we have raised three good productive citizens, it took a lot of work and a united front. You have your work cut out for you. I wish you the best of luck, a child is a big responsibility. Remember it is more than his life in your hands, what you raise him to be will effect society as a whole. You have no idea how who he will be when he grows up.
Children thrive on structure, this 6 year old is like all others. He needs just that. He need love, support, a routine and yes cook for him. He needs you and those around him to be united in his raising and to know that you are all looking out for him and his best interest. Start his day the same every day and end it the same every night, and fill it with love and support in between. Be firm and consistent with discipline, encouraging good behavior and letting him know what is not acceptable. A six year old can do chores to earn certain privileges and when he misbehaves those privileges can be taken away. Consistency is key though. With my husband we have raised three good productive citizens, it took a lot of work and a united front. You have your work cut out for you. I wish you the best of luck, a child is a big responsibility. Remember it is more than his life in your hands, what you raise him to be will effect society as a whole. You have no idea how who he will be when he grows up.
He is not the problem the problem is the family who he;s living with!! A 6 year old raised on nutella sanwiches and youtube how could you ever expect him to be loving and caring and normal when isnt surrounded by any of these things. Children learn by watching others behaviour. If you want him to see good behaviour from him then shower him with love and hugs and care and support. Give him structure follow a schedule he obviously isn't feeling safe nor loved. Please if no other adult in the house is noticing this then its up to you to step up and turn him around while he's still young. Shower him with positive words and try to reduce the bad behaviour not by punishment but by ignoring the bad and encouraging the good.
First of all cook for him, he shouldn't be a burden, children sense and understand way more than what they seem. He needs love and care, hugs but also soft punishing when he's wrong. Ofc no hitting or harsh screaming more like no video gaming if he's bad and stuff, spend more time with him, play with him. Do drawing sessions take him out regulary make him meet people. Make sure to also to lighten his good behavior. treat him like a normal child first before saying he's no normal...
Wow, a really long post. I can really see that you care and are concerned. One question first. He is 6, so he is in either K or first grade. What do the teachers think about him? This is important because if he has problems at both home and school it is one thing (an a bit more difficult to deal with), if the problems are only at home - it will be easier.