Ok...to start out. My 4 yearold son is behaving in a matter that concerns me. Here are a few things that concern me. I just want to know if this is normal. First....he likes to look at women in bikinis or even naked. He likes to watch lightning mcqueen on youtube. We put him on there to watch and if we walk away and come back hes always on a video of half naked women. Also, he likes to play the game World of Warcraft with my husband. Though all the characters he plays are girls and he has them stripped to their underwear. He acts like a normal boy though, trucks dirt ect. Also, we got a kitten just before Christmas. He really does love the kitten, but hes rough with it. Weve caught him poking it with a pen and laughing and also he threw it in a full bath tub once and laughed. He cares for it though, as hes usually carting it around or hugging it. But he does mess with it in a mean way sometimes. Also my husband, his step dad, the only dad he knows, is in the Army. He has to go away for long periods at a time. The last time he was away, I caught our son urinating upstairs in our bedroom. I spanked him and reiterated the point that that is not good. He stopped right away. Third off, his biological father is a basket case. I didnt know until later, but he had molested his younger sister and just been a psycho. He was also just recently kicked out of the Army for mental problems. So, is my son acting normal, or should I be worried? Can he inherit mental problems for his dad? PLEASE HELP ME!