clingy gfs kid

[help617]

i have a wonderful partner she is pregnet and has to kids of her own aboy that is 13 and agril that is 9 i love all 3 of them but the clingyness of the 9 year old is starting to anoy me.from the time she gets up to go to work at 5am ther she is the 9 year old.she cooks diner ther she is by her side.she gos to the bathroom she knocing at the door "are you done"we go on the porch to have 5mins alone ther she is "are you done talking"and when you tell her to go sit or go play she has a complet melt down,i mean she is nine but act like she is two,the stomping of the feet,screms on the top of her lungs,says no,no,no,no.when we watch tv she will force her self right in the middel of us.when we are in the bedd room its the sameby the time the kids go to bed we are both tierd and we just want to go to bed.this has be come really anoying to me.and at time i can see that it anoys her at times to.she spends a good amount of mommy/daughter time but that just seems to be not enough for her,i have talked many times to my girlfrind about this and she say she will grow out of this but i have suggested that she put up rules,she thinks im jelouis of her but i dont think so i understand that a good mommy/daughter relashonship is very helthy.but i need some sort of advice,help me out

[specialmom]

My advice would be family counseling.

[specialmom]

Wanted this post to be next to your other one where you complained about her othre kid.

[RockRose]

This will probably get worse when the baby is born.

She is being pushed further and further down the priority list.