i really dont know whats wrong with him!

[gothic]

my son is almost 4 years and still cant say alot of words and a lot of people cant understadn him sometimes when we play the color game i worry a lot if i say isaiah wheres the black card he cant find it but if i point to the black card and say what color is this hell say coffee and i say no its the color black he will not say anthing but coffee its like this with all colors BLACK -coffee     BLUE -waterfall   RED- blood ORANGE -juice     ok same with numbers and letters ill sa say isaiah what letter is this and instead of saying w,t,m,n,k,f,h,z,hell say castial if i say no isaiah it a w hell correct me over and over saying no mommy its a castial shapes are the same thing he will say circle but a square is always a house and a retangle is alwasy a house and a triangle is always an antania he hits his little sister who is 22 months and says while hes hitting her BUT I LOVE HER MOMMY I LOVE HER. he hits everyone me his dad and other sisters i dont know what to do he throwes things that are heavy at the baby and i can remember about 7 diffrent times we took the baby to the hospital when she was about 6 months old from him picking up really heavy objects and throwing them and hitting her in the head and she would have an indention in her head please whats wrong with my son o and he will not even go to the potty anywhere but a diaper tub or floor please help

[tls83]

my son is somewhat the same way, my son is very hiper active, he acts out, helps himself to things he shouldn't or we tell him he can't have, he dose hit me but he doesn't hit or throw things at my youngest. but your son sounds very smart. if your ped isn't helping you at all i suggest you go and see another on i agree with freesprit4life i think you should take him to see a speciallist it might help you there my son is 3 and he isn't potty trained yet when we go home from my fathers we will be starting it soon.

[gothic]

ty yes it help alot i am so glad you responded

[FreeSpirit4Life]

my nephew was very similar and go to find out he took speech classes and they helped him a lot his mom also found out from a specialist that he was autistic im not saying your son is Im just suggesting that a specialist may be a better venue if his doc isnt helping because he sounds very smart  also if he has been through any stress or trauma it can cause him to act out and the issue with him and the baby is he is jelouse he isnt getting the attention my daughter bit my ankle the other day because I was talking to my sister in law and wouldnt answer her anything to get your attention good or bad its attention I hope this helps a little

[gothic]

his ped see no problen say o ur overacting he normal 3 year old

[rilbrianne]

Why haven't you spoken to his pediatrician yet about this??? That should be your first move.  And keep the baby away from him if he's going to hurt her... at least until you can get this under control.  She's awfully young and being hurt like that can do some real damage.  

Sounds like he's got a speech issue, like I said - ask your pediatrician- they may suggest a speech therapist.