Ok, I guess the big question is, "he has been diagnosed with ADHD" and? What are they doing about the ADHD thing. There is a lot that can be done - including seeing a professional (they should go as well to learn how to deal with it). ADHD is not something that you can let go untreated. It will only get worse as they are finding out.
Having said that - he does have some symptoms of Sensory Processing Disorder. It looks a lot like ADHD, but is treated very differently (no meds). And it is many times overlooked by a professional. Check out this link and see if any of these things also fit him.
http://www.sensory-processing-disorder.com/
I am also curious how long he has had this ADHD diagnosis and what attempts have been made to help him. I am also the CL on the ADHD site here -
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/ADD---ADHD/show/175
and have a lot of resources that could help if needed. By the way, the one book I always recommend for ADHD is, "The ADD/ ADHD Answer book," by Susan Ashley. Its around $12 on Amazon and might be very helpful if they have not been getting any info at all.
Let me know how I can help and do check out the SPD site. Best wishes.
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