SMH......I agree with you Brice....
"It seems like the church thinks the sin is to be raped and to not be able to handle giving birth to a child that was the result of a monsterous act against a child. I gotta say at 9 years old, if it were my child. I would have had her get the abortion as well."
my thoughts exactly....
"Instead of taking this family in and nurturing them and aid in healing them, they just cast them out and kept the rapist? Yeah this is wrong on so many levels, so whose sin is worse? The mom? the child? the rapist? or the church?"
THE RAPIST......
It seems like the church thinks the sin is to be raped and to not be able to handle giving birth to a child that was the result of a monsterous act against a child. I gotta say at 9 years old, if it were my child. I would have had her get the abortion as well. Instead of taking this family in and nurturing them and aid in healing them, they just cast them out and kept the rapist? Yeah this is wrong on so many levels, so whose sin is worse? The mom? the child? the rapist? or the church?
These same pompous peoples attitudes crucified Christ imo.
Jesus didnt go where the pompous people were, he went into the nest of the sick, the poor, the downtrodden and the desperate. Turn out the very people that need you the most ?
Im dealing with a personal situation in my own family regarding this kind of stuff so Im sorry if I seem frustrated cause I am.
If the church is under the impression that raping a 9 year old is not a sin, its probably time to find another God. Ridiculous... By their own standards, this SOB should be on a roiling boil in hell right about now, or at least have his kettle ready.
I have to be honest, I have struggled with my religious upbringing for years over issues just like this one. My other big problem has been their stance on gay rights. It's tough when your religious upbringing completely conflicts with your personal belief system. There is a movement though within the church to bring it up to more modern day understandings of certain issues. To me, some of the teachings and rules seem rather antiquated. I respect it, but sadly cannot follow it. It's been a personal struggle for me for a very long time.
I too have family member in the catholic church adgal and like you It struck me the very same way. I can understand to a point, but has this child and her family not been thru enuff? Kind of like being raped again imo.
And the stepfather that raped her! Whats up with that? Yeah, something aint right here.
Personally I have nothing to do with a faith that sets these rules for its members and then hands down punishment. But that is me. That is my description of a cult. Not just catholic, but organizations like JW as well.
The crucifiction ended those archaic practices as far as Im concerned. Thank God I dont have to have goats sacraficed. I would go to hell and starve to death for lack of livestock! lol
I read this much earlier today and really had to think about it. My initial reaction of course is extreme anger toward the Church as this really is unfair. However, I was raised Catholic, and the policies or teachings of the Church are that divorce, abortion, etc. are sins that will have you excommunicated. As despicable as it was what happened to that poor little girl, the Church does not believe in abortion in any circumstance. As far as I know there are no exceptions. So this is a case of them following "policy" I suppose. Do I agree with their decision? Of course not. But I do kind of understand how they came to this conclusion.
As for the rapist? I cannot understand why he too was not excommunicated. However, regardless of what has (or has not) happened to him, I suspect the Devil reserves a very special place for men like him...actually, I can't even call him a man. Men don't rape little girls.