Who is my baby's daddy?

[crazycurious11]

Okay so many of y'all know my situation and are all probably annoyed by all of my questions, lol I'm sorry I just don't have anyone to talk to about this and I need help. The first day of my LMP was Feb 23, I had sex with my bf on March 3rd and he finished inside me. (I make it clear that we were not together at the time but we were before our break up in a 3 year fully committed relationship) then after we had sex we stopped talking again and me being hurt and all I've always been the type that feels better with attention (I hate that about myself but my dad never gave me the attention I needed from a man) anyways, I slept with another guy on March 9th (my supposed ovulation day) then a month later I find out I'm pregnant so of course the first person I tell is my ex (now bf) because he was the only one that came to mind and he automatically thought it was his and asked no questions and I myself believed it until his mom asked for a DNA test since I had hurt him once before and he decided to put it behind us and keep strong but she still never forgot, I don't blame her. I never cheated though it was something else. So I guess then the other guy came back to mind and I been freaking out. So according to numbers I was wondering if each of yall who are willing if yall can do the math (I've already done it myself) but tell me what yall get. In all honesty PLEASE. like I said I had sex with my bf March 3rd and sex with the other guy March 9th, my LMP was Feb 23 (I'm not sure when it ended because I can't really tell when my period ends Idk if I count the brown left over blood or just the heavy days) and I've only jotted down my last 3 periods which have been Dec 25 Jan 25 and Feb 23 I'm not sure if those numbers are needed but your answers will definitely help in my decision on what to do. So please be honest with what you get, who's my baby daddy? Thanks in advance.

[smiley_one]

Remember if you ever need anyone to talk to you can always private message me on here and I'll try to get back to you as quick as possible :) I wish you all the best of luck with everything :) *hugs*

[crazycurious11]

Thank you smiley and mamabear. I will try my hardest to do what is right, for my baby not for me. Thank you all for helping me, supporting me, even lecturing me because I needed it.

[MamaBear0612]

We're all scared on some level, at least I am, it's a scary thing becoming a mom. On top of that, you're in a hard situation in which you feel you can't even be truthful. I think truth is really the best option, whatever you end up doing you're going to have a hard time carrying that secret for the next 50 years. Good luck, no matter what...and you can be whatever kind of mom you want to be, life is about choices and whatever choice you make, you'll be whatever kind of mom you choose to be, whether that's good or bad.

[crazycurious11]

Thank you Marisha I will do that!!

[smiley_one]

I agree with mamabear0612. This should be about the baby. Abortion is a big decision and I can't imagine myself ever getting one, no matter what situation I would be in. You have 2 men wanting to be apart of this baby's life, and no matter who the father is, the baby will be loved no matter what. Like I said before, if it turns out not to be your boyfriends baby, I'm sure the other man would be more than happy to take the baby and raise him/her. Just because he teaches his girlfriends child to cuss doesn't mean that he will do it with his own child. A baby changes a man, either for the good or for the worse, but I believe that no matter who the baby's father is, he/she will have a good life. Enjoy your pregnancy.

[crazycurious11]

Your absolutely right, I agree with you 100% I'm also scared to be a bad mom I don't want to be a bad mom I've cried so much because of that as well, I'm not ready and I should have kept my legs shut. This poor baby, I don't even know what life to give it. I'm emotionally unstable and I think that is worse than being any other type of instability. I hate to admit all of this but I just want to make the right decision and I'm scared of everything, always have been.