Who is my baby's daddy?

[crazycurious11]

Okay so many of y'all know my situation and are all probably annoyed by all of my questions, lol I'm sorry I just don't have anyone to talk to about this and I need help. The first day of my LMP was Feb 23, I had sex with my bf on March 3rd and he finished inside me. (I make it clear that we were not together at the time but we were before our break up in a 3 year fully committed relationship) then after we had sex we stopped talking again and me being hurt and all I've always been the type that feels better with attention (I hate that about myself but my dad never gave me the attention I needed from a man) anyways, I slept with another guy on March 9th (my supposed ovulation day) then a month later I find out I'm pregnant so of course the first person I tell is my ex (now bf) because he was the only one that came to mind and he automatically thought it was his and asked no questions and I myself believed it until his mom asked for a DNA test since I had hurt him once before and he decided to put it behind us and keep strong but she still never forgot, I don't blame her. I never cheated though it was something else. So I guess then the other guy came back to mind and I been freaking out. So according to numbers I was wondering if each of yall who are willing if yall can do the math (I've already done it myself) but tell me what yall get. In all honesty PLEASE. like I said I had sex with my bf March 3rd and sex with the other guy March 9th, my LMP was Feb 23 (I'm not sure when it ended because I can't really tell when my period ends Idk if I count the brown left over blood or just the heavy days) and I've only jotted down my last 3 periods which have been Dec 25 Jan 25 and Feb 23 I'm not sure if those numbers are needed but your answers will definitely help in my decision on what to do. So please be honest with what you get, who's my baby daddy? Thanks in advance.

[marishaxoxo]

With 8wk4days on april 23 wouldn't that put conception at march 4th roughly??? If I remember correctly the margin of error for an 8wk scan is +-2 days with an experienced ultrasound tech?? Google it hun.... might make you feel better or better informed...

[MamaBear0612]

I thought of that, that your boyfriend is definitely going to be suspicious and your going to have to lie like crazy. I also wonder if you could really feel that way and get an abortion just because the baby doesn't belong to the "right" guy, maybe you're right and you should put motherhood on hold. I hate to say that, because on a personal level I can't even imagine getting an abortion. I know you're in a hard place, but your decision-making right now isn't very motherly, so maybe you're not ready for it at all. Having a baby is about the baby, not about us, our feelings, or our relationships...at least I think it should be.

[crazycurious11]

I've been telling him that I've been cramping just incase I decide to do that. He thinks he's funny by telling me that I'm just constipated -_-

[smiley_one]

But if you don't tell your fiance that there is chance that it could belong to someone else and then all of sudden you aren't pregnant anymore, he is going to be suspicious.

[crazycurious11]

That's what the other guy asked me and I said abort.

[Cassidyy12]

Since yur bfs mom is askin for a dna test, whatre yu gonna do if its the other guys? Yea it could be yur bfs but if yu ovulated the day yu had sex with that other guy, it could be his. More so than yur bfs.
I wish yu luck