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Am I the father

me and this girl had sex on September 21st but she's due in May. If you do the math that's only 8 months, she's also told me she had sex with people before me but I'm still being accused of being the father, am I the father?
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I understand what your saying but thank you anyway
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I honestly don't think you understand what I say to you.

Do DNA. All the best
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Your right, I'm my opinion I think it was one of the two she slept with in August that she had to sleep with at the end end of the month or begining September. That's the only was she would concieve during the 7-13th. Oh I almost forgot she's due anywhere from the 9th of  June to the 22nd I believe
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no earlier or later than sept *

Sept conceptions will range from 21 weeks to 25 weeks at this current time.

Now no one is saying to go and start paying for prenatals.

But considering there's an innocent life involved it would be irresponsible to say rest easy this child is not yours. It looks like a and matters of 7 days or so and ultrasounds this late can be off by more than that much.

You need to be asking her who else she slept with in September not in August. Any guy from August is out of the question.  
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are you asking or telling.

Your not taking in all that was said. She definitely conceived no later than sept.

Its hard to be precise about where in september she conceived without knowledge that it is from an accurate ultrasound and in what trimester (and week) such was done.  
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Ok soo she's actually 23 weeks and that means she conceived during the week of the 7th-13th
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i can understand what your saying but if she indeed got pregnant after me and her had sex she shouldn't about to be 6 months
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yes I did have a condom on and no I did not ejaculate in her
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Can I ask did you use a condom ? Did you have unprotected sex and ejaculate inside?
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My LMP dating puts conception on the 24th of september and me at 22 weeks  exactly  (as of today) . These were provided by two OB/GYNs.


I am not sure why you think it is so unlikely you are the father. I actually think you most likely  are if the only other guy was from August.
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The chances are not large but it's not impossible and would be entirely worth taking a test from a proper lab.  The other guy should test also.
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I was just asking what your opinion is on that because I'm stressing about it. I mean me and her had already talked about it and she said she's going to talk to the dude from and what I'm trying to say is she is 5 about to be 6, that six comes from August
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I'm not trying to make a point im just saying that she shouldn't about to turn 6 months if we did what we did 5 months ago
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I will be 6 months at end of the month and i had sex after september 21st !!!!

what point are you trying to make.
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what do you think? because she's going to be 6 months at the end of the month when it's only going to 5 since me and her had sex.
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all I know as of now is that she's 22 weeks
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if shes 22 weeks pregnant conception was around 23rd plus or minus say 5 days.  that gives us 18th - 28th .


If she's 23 weeks pregnant conception was around 16th  (10th - 21st)
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what is the exact number of weeks and days is she
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do you think ultrasound dating is an exact science? you are in the ballpark.

i am 5 months and got pregnant in the last few days of september.

is it that you cannot afford dna ?
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the thing is if she really did get pregnant in September she would be 4 and a half months just about to be 5, because as of now she's about to be 6 months at the end of the month and 6 months ago was August, that's where the other guy comes in
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also I don't know your math but I conceived end of sept/first week in October and I am due in June.
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do you know how pregnancy is dated?

It is counted plus 2 weeks before conception. If doct says shes 22/23 weeks pregnant then its 20/21 weeks since conception. Then you need to add plus or minus 1 week for discrepancy in ultrasound dating and  if you had sex with her between 19 - 22 weeks ago TAKE THE TEST.
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today I found out she was actually due in June but she's  22/23 weeks. I did the math again and that's  about a whole week before we had sex and she's also told me that she had sex with someone in August , is it still a possibility the baby is mine?
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DITTO ANNIE. well said.
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