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Poo44clooner

Just found out that they were right about me.
I'm a freak.
I'm invisible.
No one can hear me.
So don't bother.

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freddie8605

I feel like that sometimes, like no matter what i say it falls on deaf ears, like no body is listening to me, like i am not there, like they can't see or hear me even though i am so close to them. I too think why do i even bother talking when no one listens, what the point i am just wasting what little energy i have saying something so important to me but obviously not important to anyone else. The problem is most of the time this isn't just a feeling but actuating happening to me, poeple often do ignore me when i speak, change topic and don't listen to my side, but they tell me they love me but there actions say otherwise, then they say i over react and its not like that at all, but it is like that to me at least. Don't my opinions count, don't my thoughts count? Well sometimes it feels they don't. ' They' for me is my family.

I am sorry you feel like that or that is happening to you. You are not a freak, i have read some of your other comments to others and you sound loving, caring and very understanding, that is not freakish at all but something that i wish all humans were like. ( sorry if i sound storkerish, not meaning too, just like to read comments etc so i feel like i no who i am talking too more)

I am here for you when ever you want to talk. YOU ARE NOT INVISIBLE TO ME!!!!

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Poo44clooner

I have tried to discuss this with my family, my father just says, "Ok Angela that's enough" and walks away.
FREAK OF THE FAMILY

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senile1

i am sorry for the way your family treats you. i can't ever imagine my folks doing me that way. since they don't seem to care about you, why don't you discuss this with your folks?

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Poo44clooner

Maybe you are right but it is so hard when you love your parents so much and desperately still need their approval. I should stop that. I should learn by now that I don't need anyone's approval but when they constantly throw it back in your face each time you see them it becomes really hard. I guess it is something I need to work on.
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freddie8605

I am the black sheep in my family too, the weird one, different know matter how hard i try. Sometimes its just easier to say "okay i don't fit in", and stop trying. But of course that's up to you.

Freddie

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Poo44clooner

Thanks for your comment. Don't have friends. They are my family members. I have tried to argue my point but they just walk away and ignore me which hurts even more. So I just don't participate in family gatherings anymore, even for the holidays.
Thanks a million
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senile1

HI, i feel sorry for all you so called friends. you have nothing to be ashamed of, they do. real friends would'nt treat you like that. so what if you are overweight some. everybody has issues. maybe you need some new friends. i would'nt take to kindly to be called a freak either. you seem to be a healthy person. stop taking the abuse, start whupping some butt. you really should kick all your so called friends to the curb, and get out and make new friends. here's a good place to start. i am a country girl,45 years old,ex marine.. SEMPER FI. I don't take crap from anybody, and you should'nt either. regardless of what people say about you, don't let it get the best of you. hope i am not stepping on any toes.

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