I looked at your picture close up. I see very thin scars. I have a worse scar on my face and it doesn't bother me, so and I'm a woman, so please realize you are focusing on something others don't think about.
There is a cream called Mederma that is supposed to smooth out scars. You could try that. A dermatologist could offer more to smooth out the edges for you, but remember that you see them more than anybody else.